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139 comments:

barbee said...

OMG, the newest pics of the trash in KY are beserk.
She overfloweths her strapless mess, she goes safari with boobs bound by the too small dress, she can't even match a hat to a dress, let alone a dress to her block (I mean body). Does she not know that the extra material in the dress around her wide middle is just going to make her look more like a 'block in a lady hat and hooker heels'?

The look on her puss in the strapless sideview pic is just
'so Kate'. Kinda makes ya wonder who pi$$ed her off now.

Loved one pic I saw where she was signing "8" with her fingers. Can someone tell her she is NOT the only one in the world who ever had multiples, she is not the most loved mother of multiples, and she is not 'naturally' the best looking mother of multiples (all the 'help' she has had is still far eclipsed by the ugly on and from the inside). It's ALL about 'inner beauty', Katie, and that is just another one of those many things you are so badly lacking.

Saw a comment somewhere that there is notice of cancellation about to be announced. YIPPEE!

TammyInFL said...

Katetwit has a tweet from last night:
"met many screaming fans outside"

LOL

What is she on ???

What a goon.

Aunt Chris said...

Who's fans were they? :p

Reading Observer said...

Being invited to the Derby, as a D List Celebrity is not inclusive of being an attendee at the Lunches/Dinners with the Money Set, which is the Horse Ranch Owners or the people who actually have been involved for generations.

These people are down to earth. Ever muck a horse down, after riding, shovel crap? That is a true blue blood horse owner. They dress up very nice, but they are earth people.

Kate is being kept with the "D celebrity crowd" and that is all. Would she have been invited if she had not had connections with TLC and someone said "we have to have her seen"...absolutely not.

The A List Group and that is all the top Notch Performers/Writers/Publishers/the Oprah type like Tom Cruise, etc.

Kate gets into the "Freebie Tent" which provides the hats and dress, oh yes. She did not buy anything. She probably got a tote bag filled with not much of anything other than a pad to sit on her bleecher, made of wood, with splinters.

Horse folks, with or without the money, are very loving people of animals. I'll bet our dear Katie could not get close to a Horse Barn, cause she wouldn't be able to handle the trainers, who have dirty hands, sleep in those stalls, and the people who do all the "dirty work" like cleaning out the horse trailers, in other words, Kate couldn't change a diaper, do you really think she will love seeing the big crappola of a well fed, healthy horse?

Please, put a saddle on her and let her race.

I guess the strap less dress is her "I couldn't attend the wedding in London, so this is my closest to royality outfit" and again I say to you all "can't buy class, only people walking around the grounds are hookers with their boobs hanging out.

Sobby McFibberpants said...

I bet they were screaming. My guess is they were screaming things like, "Since you do it all yourself, where are your kids?", or "How can you parent from Kentucky"? "Ouch, my eyes!" Sorry for that last one, that was just mean. Anyway, maybe if she gambles on the Derby she can claim she's formed a gambling addiction and Dr. Drew can put her on Celebrity Rehab.

Shoka's Understudy said...

What a goon.

She is saying that she met many screaming fans. She is trying to pull the wool over the sheeples eyes. They are not her fans. It is fans of all the other celebrities that showed up.

How vulgar she is to stand there dressed in that coccoon dress and hold her 8 fingers up showing how many kids she gave birth to.

Strange, on one hand she has 3 fingers and 5 on the other.

The hand with 5 represents the girls and the hand with 3 represents the boys. She can't stand those boys.

I wonder if that p'od look on her face is because a rich old man w/horses hasn't hit on her yet.

Shoka's Understudy said...

She looks so miserable in every picture. Everyone else looks relaxed and happy.

It is amazing that a mother of 8 children has the time to go to another state, a thousand miles away and stay for a week and go to luncheons and parties.

Miss Mother's Day with her children for the second year in a row. Also buy the outfits that she is wearing, but I heard she got her hat from the grifting, I mean gifting shop.

You are not suppose to just go buy a hat off of the rack. That is what the commoners do. The fashionable thing to do is have it made over a few months before the event.

Hope the IRS is taking notes.

Brummygirl said...

Aunt Chris said:
Who's fans were they? :p
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I went in the other day to look at the twitter site, I do not twitter myself.
One of the fans was saying "oh look, Kate has said she loves us all" and then on the bottom of the article I posted on the last Free Discussion thread, there was someone going gaga because Kate had put a heart before a message.
Obviously, most of these fans are teenagers apart from B.M. and her minions, so would you not think she would clue into this and prefer mothers and adults as fans?
She really is a loony toon!!

Reading news said...

There isn't a hat on earth that could cover that awful hair. I can't wait to see what becomes of the hair once she can't afford trips to her New York stylist.

Ampersmom said...

Did Kate's "good bra" get bigger? Is this why she "fell" off the radar for a couple of weeks? Why she couldn't twitter? Did she go and buy a new bra? In both the dress with the hat and that strapless dress , the "girls" look bigger. Are those the "girls" she took on a trip?

O-Hi-O said...

"Good bra" my arse! I recently saw some footage of her from back in her Frump-A-Licious Days of Yore. There is NO WAY those dirigibles she now sports are hers and perked by nothing more than that 'good bra' she claims. If her tatas were EVER going to be that huge, it certainly would've been during and directly after pregnancy, and the footage I recently saw showed them to be nothing at all like the two new imposters she's a'wearin' these days. What she can't seem to stop flashing these days cannot possibly be hers without the addition of some heavy duty surgical help of saline or silicone implants. So characteristic of K8G to lie about this, too, rather than owning her own reality.

A Derby hat is to K8G what lipstick is to a pig.

That dress is funny on two counts: a) meant to be sexy, on K8G, it looks like a Bedazzled Feed Sack, and b) K8G seems to INSTINCTIVELY pick inherently tacky clothing that displays her body in the most UNflattering ways. If that woman ever had a waist, it ran away years ago. She is left with a tree trunk of a torso, better left hidden, not showcased, as in this latest attempt at glitz and glamour.

Give the old girl a big bag of oats (organic, of course), unsaddle her and lead her back to the barn. She's increasingly looking rode hard and put up wet.

Someone really needs to send her a DVD of "Sunset Blvd", because K8G is DEFINITELY ready for her close up now, Max.

Payson48 said...

So who is doing khates makeup and hair while in Ky.? Purseboy? We know she can do the ponytail but when it comes to styling that mess who does it for/to her? Any ideas??

Mom In Lancaster County said...

So characteristic of K8G to lie about this, too, rather than owning her own reality.

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I don't think that she lied about it. She chose her words very carefully, the same as she did when asked if the kids were expelled. Technically, they weren't expelled because LS doesn't use that term. It was a mandatory withdrawal. She didn't lie.

Same thing with the boob job. When asked if she has breast implants, what she said was that she got a good bra. She probably did get a good bra to cover the new inflatables. However, she never came out and said that she got new bosoms, and she never said that she didn't. Somebody advised her on what to say so it wouldn't come off as lying. She never would have been able to figure this out herself.

Mom In Lancaster County said...

Reading news said...

There isn't a hat on earth that could cover that awful hair. I can't wait to see what becomes of the hair once she can't afford trips to her New York stylist.

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It will probably look better because it couldn't look any worse.

Mom In Lancaster County said...

Are those the "girls" she took on a trip?

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LOL! She said she took the "LITTLE girls" on the trip, so maybe they did need to be re-inflated!

jaded said...

I almost spit out my mint julep when I saw that miserable shrew's face flash on the TV screen among the other celebes attending the Kentucky Derby.

I've been so over Kate for such a long time that I assumed everyone else was as well. What moron company is footing the bill for the appearances. Whoever it is must have money to burn.

By the way, you rub down a horse, and you muck out a stable. And unfortunately, not all horse people are devoted animal lovers; some are just in it for the money.

Wife of a Pap people said...

Hubby went to the Derby, he has about 15 photogs there, several horse mags/sports mags, etc. want photos. Usually he doesn't go to the Derby but perhaps he wanted to get out on the road for a while (maybe I do drive him nuts about Kate?)

He called and told me that when Kate walked the red carpet, they have about 4 to 6 ft in between each celebrity/STAH and when our Katie stepped up, the photogs did not turn her way. Perhaps 1200 to 1500 photogs from all over the World are there for the race and people who own. Not all were at the red carpet, most are there for the royalties from every country including Saudi, Dubai and are more interested in the owners, trainers, etc. Several were heard to mutter "who is she" and she yelled I have 8 children.lol lol
Yet, she wasn't photographed, the person before her and I can't tell you who, but you will see it, and the person behind her got the attention, so you will see her profile and she has a puss on her with that mini skirt and that hair. TLC had several photogs there as they had a lot of their reality wives thereoverseas, not many.After all members of the royal families from every country were there, on the "down low" as Kate would say. They are all horse people.Kate has no access to the owners of the horses Hubby said Steve was holding purse, some type of jacket for her and was taking his own pics. He was decked out. Hubby also said that her mini dress wouldn't have been so bad, leg wise, but she has a short ankle to knee thing going and she had some type of strap around her ankles and we all know that cuts off your long leg look.

TLC arranged all hair/makeup by their own contracted people is what hubby found out.Local folks make a lot of money doing this.

Hubby found it strange that all the TV media shows were there and ET had a booth too, to interview after the red carpet and Kate headed for it, but was moved away Could not resist this info. Hubby said by the time the main race is over, she will be so bored, if not already. She did expect to be on the level where she would have to make her own bets, but have "runners" do the work for you, but Katie is not on that level.Hmmm, first class is closed Katie. lol lol

Just remember, this is a place where Katie is really small potatoes, look at those crowds of over 150,000. She "ain't

Annie said...

She dose not look good in black. She should wear green then her envy would be shown for all the world to see.

Wife of a Pap people said...

So sorry about the hectic email. I meant Katie expected to be in first class with the "runners" who make your bets for you, etc., No such thing, she is on that level that has all TLC and Bravo's reality people and it ain't no private box, cause remember she is at the racetrack and the dust from the races is all over the place.

No, she gets no contact with the millionaires and multi millionaires as each horse could have 10 or more owners, is what Hubby told me. I have never been to a race track, but I don't think it is anymore comfortable than a baseball/football game in the nose bleed section.

Can you believe our Katie have to use the bathrooms? Too much for me to think of without laughing gals.

This, according to Hubby, may be the one freebie she accepted that she will always regret as there are over 150,000 people and some real high security from all over the world. We do know what the middle easterns think of someone with their "girls" hanging out, huh?

The race is over, she is in line wondering why in the world she went, why she has to wait and wait and wait for A BUS, yes, she is herded into a BUS and then being taken to whichever hotel the D list people are at, honestly, Kate won't be dining with the pinkie finger up cause that isn't going to happen, unless TLC is arranging a dinner at Sizzler or some place like that, don't forget that is a lot of people staying overnight who will be using the fine dining and also be catered to. Hope Katie found a package store for a box of vino to get her and Steve thru the night.

By the way, wanted to know why, in that Philly trip, I read that she had to set up cots in the hotel rooms for the kids? It use to be that the kids were in regular beds, 2 to a bed, 2 double beds in the room with all the adjoining doors to the 3 bedrooms for the 8 kids and the nannies. Then there was Kate and her bodyguard in their own suite down the hall. You know she needs her sleep in order to "perform" the next day. That was the first class she use to get. That was some downgrade in Philly, huh?

Honestly Hubby would be furious with me but I know he only tells me somethings cause he knows I tell you all and sometimes I feel bad for her but not for long cause she is so mean, mean, mean and so self centered.

I had my kids, my hips won't get into anything other than a size 14-16, but I feel good about myself. I keep the hair colored but not overdoing it. I still do the pedi, as I love the toe nails looking good in the summer, but I only get a manicure as the nail polish doesn't stay on and I cook, chop veggies, etc., help my niece's catering business. Yeah, I spend a little, but very little as I did work all my life too.

Yet, I cannot get over her obsession like a movie star, some of them are obsessed to the point of being so mean to everyone, some are not mean as Hubby says, but hard working and good entertainers. But Kate isn't anyone with talent, she is like all of us, a mother with kids, none of us spend more time on ourselves that we did our kids, did we? I have no talent but gossiping with you folks. Love this site, will miss it, get some of the best laughs here.

I do worry about those kids of her' because I just hope that Cara starts to smile, she just stays quiet, wraps her arms around herself and stares. It is very sad as we all had a girl at that age who get confused about themselves. She works that girl like a Nanny, mother of the kids and doesn't allow her to be a kid, that is sad to me. I pray I'm wrong about that.

Okay, until next time, probably won't be one, huh? That show will disappear but it will be fun to hear what else Kate will do to get the limelight.

sosick of her said...

Man, Kate looks fat in those pics. The dress styles are wrong for her. The pink and that gold thing make her look as if she is pregnant. The pink dress and the gold mini are what you wear for clubbing not Derby. The gold dress is what you wear for Hollywood parties and clubs. Kate does not know how to dress. She is so desperate for attention, so dress like your 20, and bar hopping. She looks goofy.

Wife of a Pap People said...

Oh yeah I forgot, Hubby said that when you have a big head and face, like our Katie, you don't have a face/head for a hat, lol lol lol lol

He said it was like putting a hat on a mule and allowing the ears to come out the top of the hat. lol lol lol lol

Just when I think his humor is gone, he gets darn witty.

Annie said...

Kates derby look
http://yfrog.com/gy3bysymj

How can she say that her hat matches her dress?! It looks like she got into a fight with a flock of geese.

Brummygirl said...

Wife of Pap: Thank you for the inside info. I loved the part about where she was stopped going to E.T. Hope she realised that she was a small pebble on that beach of royalty and real stars. Why on earth they wanted her, amazes me. Watch for the twitter on her return.

ChurchMouse said...

I'm confused.

I thought that Ms. Gosselin was going to wear the magenta satin mini with black hat to the Derby.

Then the pics come out, the snark began, and she ends up in something that looks much more expensive (but still dreadful on her.)

That feathered hat made her look like a molting emu. You have to have poise, charm and complete confidence to pull off a look like that; she has none of the former.

In her interview, she just kept shrugging her shoulders and rolling her eyes, the way one does when one is desperately trying to convince others that one is being light and breezy. It didn't work.

Also, she was given a faboo opportunity to sell her show, and whatever else she is working on. Did she? Nope. Shrug. Mindless eye-roll. Might as well have just said, "Whatever..."

Psst, TLC. Come here, come here, come here--Your Gosselin Girl sucks at interviews. Wait, don't go away, come back, come back--SHE ALWAYS HAS AND IF SHE HASN'T LEARNED ANYTHING BY NOW, IT'S TIME TO CUT YOUR LOSSES.

No charge for the free advice. I understand that TLC is happy with anything that is for free.

O-Hi-O said...

Tons o'Derby pics on MSNBC, from A to E Listers, yet nary a photo of Our Little Katie.

Jonny Weir is shown twice. He looks far better in his Derby hat than K8G looks in hers. Also, his chest is more tastefully attired than K8G's cleavage.

I'm hoping K8G has reservations 2night at Hotel Six and that she remembers to not walk barefoot on those hotel rugs, as this kind of neurotic cleanliness was allegedly so important to her in the early days...

8unhappycampers said...

Looked at "kate's derby look" pic (thanks Annie) and my gut reaction? "Wow, Elvira Gulch" (From Wizard of Oz) Actually looked for the bike with the basket or a broom. Lord, there are some seriously unflattering pics of her cropping up.

Pony said...

What part of "the first Saturday in May" did Kate not get about the Derby? Her outfit is completely wrong - you're supposed to look spring-y, with pink, yellow, etc. for your color palette - not black! Does no one dress her?

FunInTheSun said...

Even Hef's current 'housemates' dressed more appropriately than Kate . . .

The article is interesting. It would have served Kate will to do a little Web research before she did her Derby day shopping. She should have dressed like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman at the polo match, not how she was dressed at the beginning of the movie! LOL

http://www.stilettosetsports.com/day-at-the-races-fashion/

Mary said...

did she get that hat from "A Christmas Story" look more like a lamp shade I love it
Kate is doing it all to her self

Mary

Red Sky At Night said...

She should have dressed like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman at the polo match, not how she was dressed at the beginning of the movie! LOL

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I was thinking the same thing! I loved Julia's outfit for the polo match - that brown and white dotted dress and white hat. Now that was class. Kate wouldn't know class if up and hit her in her bazooms.

Orlando, It's Autumn Sunrise! said...

"Does no one dress her?"

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Steve?

Oh, sorry. You said "dress," not "undress!"

"That feathered hat made her look like a molting emu."

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Oh, Church...I laughed out loud at this one. Funniest thing I read all day!

Portrait Of Jennie said...

"Kate won't be dining with the pinkie finger up cause that isn't going to happen, unless TLC is arranging a dinner at Sizzler or some place like that..."

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Sizzler is steak house, is it not? It's not exactly fine dining, certainly not Le Bec Fin!

"But Kate isn't anyone with talent, she is like all of us, a mother with kids..."

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I certainly hope none of us is like Kate, that when she was made, the mold was thrown away.

Tizzie said...

From BabyMama's blog:

haters are flocking to any Gosselin blog they can to talk about how JEALOUS they are of Kate Gosselin. Making themselves appear more desparate than ever.
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WTF???? Seriously, are the sheeple STILL going on about that BS? They are SO childish!

Tami said...

Katetwit has a tweet from last night:
"met many screaming fans outside"

LOL

What is she on ???

What a goon.

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She failed to tell you they were screaming get the kids off tv!

Tami said...

the "girls" look bigger. Are those the "girls" she took on a trip?
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She said she went away to bond with the little girls. Perhaps her boobs are the 'little girls'?

Tami said...

so everyone is talking about this mini dress she was supposed to wear but changed her mind or something? where can I find this pic? I never saw any gold mini or whatever it was, just the black one that yes, did look like the wicked witch of the west.

ChurchMouse said...

Holy Smokes. I knew that the fans of the show were obsessive, but this takes the cake:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CStOu29InVY


Watch and cringe.

mama mia said...

At this point all TLC has in Kate is the stupid outfits, it keeps people talking abour her. I think she knows she looks awful and it hurts her to read the jabs but greed wins over. She did DWTS knowing how badly that would turn out. Money is truly all she cares out. Now lets see what lies she'll twitter this time about the kids gifting her with tons of stuff and telling her she is the best mommy in the world, gag.

Duckman said...

Kate's Derby look is apparently the visual equivalent of tone-deafness.

That getup also looks like an example of boudoir photography circa 1905. This getup won't impress anybody in 2011, but it just might get Teddy Roosevelt all hot and bothered.

kate can't do sh** said...

People. You must watch the red carpet interview at the derby. She is sinking fast. I have not seen her make such a bad impression before. It really is true. She has no talent on her own. The poor interviewer. She truly had nothing to work with. Kate, you are a DUD. You should try an interview and not bring up the kids for once if you want to stand on your own merit. And she is still claiming HER show is on it's way to us soon. She looked terrible in the interview. Very uncomfortable. As if she knew she didn't belong there.....tee hee.

so sick of her said...

After, seeing that black dress thing, and taking in all the other dresses she wore, Kate remonds me of the character in the movie 'Showgirls'. Like Kate belongs in Las Vegas, not at the Derby. That black dress looks like she was getting ready to sell cigars & cigarettes, and chewing gum. That is how bad it looked. And that interview she gave to the TV people: what the heck was she taking about. She was tryin to make the interview about her not the Derby.

Happy Mothers Day to everyone who is a mom, and who is an acting mom(dads, aunts etc) and to those who have furry children too!

Marge said...

I feel sorry for Kate. I didn't used to, because I thought she was making most of the decisions regarding what she wanted to do, but after seeing the photos at the Kentucky Derby I feel terrible sorry for her.

She's not a star. She doesn't really know how to dress appropriately for different events. She interviews very poorly. She thinks she's a A list celebrity when she barely makes the D list.

But who made her think she was a STAR? TLC did this. TLC dangled more money than she could have imagined to sell away her children's childhood. TLC gave her the star treatment. TLC condoned behavior that made the popular press fall all over themselves to take her photo or write about her.

And, face it, Kate is not too bright. In the same situation, who among us wouldn't start to think we were special and not have some little, nagging voice inside tell us that it's all pretend, temporary, not real? Kate doesn't have that voice. So she believes her own hype, and hasn't the introspection needed to question why she's being asked to do certain things. She thinks star treatment is her DUE; that her talent is such that she DESERVES it.

Poor, poor Kate. She's a laughing stock, TLC knows it, and she is still struggling to get back 'on top' (not that she ever was there to begin with) and not understanding why no one is making a fuss over her.

This is TLC's fault. It is that network's fault for enticing a couple to put their children out for money; it is TLC's fault that her children are hauled all over the world for 'vacations' they have little use for or will remember. It is TLC's fault for condoning her immature and excessive drama because it makes for good ratings. Kate has no one with whom she works who has HER best interests at heart. All anyone wants to do is see how much money she can make for them. She's alienated anyone who might have helped her, been her friend, or been her support. She's surrounded by adults who only want to see how much she impacts their salaries.

And that's why I feel sorry for her.

Brummygirl said...

ChurchMouse said...
Holy Smokes. I knew that the fans of the show were obsessive, but this takes the cake:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CStOu29InVY
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Oh my word...where do I start.
If it wasn't so ridiculous, it would be scary.
It reaffirms my thoughts, that most of Kate's fans are teenagers. Hey kids, how about holding your own mothers up as role models, it IS their Mother's Day.
The thing which made me laugh, was the ex-teacher praising Kate for teaching her kids so many things.
WHAT THINGS? They go on trips and Kate ensures the most educational thing is HER!!
There was nary a brain between all of them, especially the gum chewing Sheeple who thought it was Christmas!! :)
The end credits confirmed something for me, the titles are non other than B.M.'s Sheeple followers, who post under those names.
Saying "I love you" to Kate, put the creep factor into it for me.
Save it for your family. If you think Kate really responds, think again, you are money in her eyes.
She is fiction, Sheeple people, when will you realise this?

Brummygirl said...

HAPPY MOTHERS' DAY TO ONE AND ALL!!

Brummygirl said...

I found the video.
What wonderful phrasing. "So fun", "haven't done the horse racing before".
Sure, she is going to dress like that forever going to Target.
The woman is inept without her ear piece. She also sounds as if she had gum tucked in her cheek.
"SO FUN" Kate!!" :)

kate can't do sh** said...

Just thought I would post the link of that Oscar worthy interview.

http://admin.kentuckyderby.com/news/videos/kate-gosselin-red-carpet

Tragic. Brutal. Painful. Embarassing. Oh, I learned some NEW things about her. She has 8 kids. She likes to sleep. She likes coffee. Put away your sleeping tablets. Just fire up this link and you'll be out cold in seconds.

Kate lies said...

Oh, that video of red carpet Kate. I'm still shuddering. That was a completely slutty outfit and not at all appropriate Derby wear or 36 year old mother of eight wear. Did she think she was going clubbing? She behaved like a silly teenager with her shoulder movements, hands waving around, and eye rolls. Has anyone else seen Alexandra the druggie on Dr Phil? Hello Kate, take a view of that and don't behave like an immature young 20 something addict.

kate can't do sh** said...

Funny you should mention the shoulder movements in that interview. There was a clip in one of Jon and Kate's ugly moments on youtube where Kate is sitting on the couch with Jon and he moved his shoulders before he started speaking and Kate gave him complete and holy hell about doing that. She told him he didn't have to do that and he should just sit still. Classic Kate. Gee, just when I thought I was done posting on GWOP because there was nothing interesting to comment on, I am pleasantly surprised to be given more ammo by Kate. LOL.

And do we still have to keep stroking her ego about how great she looks for having had 8 kids? And the dancing barbs? These two topics are worn out.

hart&sole said...

Sadly, I tuned into TKD just in time to see the horses race and missed the hind end of the horse. Thanks to Annie for the link to the lingerie dress and dead emu feathers. Back in the day I used to be a giant fan of Jon and Kate, then defended Kate, single mom. Now I can't bear to watch the show which should be renamed, "All About Kate, But Who Cares?"

Shoka's Understudy said...

I went to the interview on the red carpet with kate and I was just stunned.

Complete Idiot!

That outfit is just stupid. You wear spring time colors, not fall/winter!

Her facial expressions, with her tounge, so immature teenager.

When the girl asked her about the dance the night before, she said she had a lot of fun, met a lot of people.

After watching the video of me, me, and me, I decided to watch the video clip with Julie Bendz.

Difference of Night and Day!

She was poised, articulate and gave great answers, didn't fumble, not one time.

She said that her and her stylist worked on her outfit dress and hat for 2 months. Perfectly matched. And that she had a wonderful time at the dance and they raised a lot of money for Cancer Research.

kate is so into her own self, she didn't even mention the fundraiser.

kate said, I can't wait to get in there, where the people waiting to see the race were. She was hoping that a Rich O'le Man would hit on her and She Won't Have to Worry and dress up all in Lace and go in Style.

So proud of ET. That is probably why had that p'od look on her face. Bet PurseBoy had to whip out the muzzle!

Shoka's Understudy said...

If after this Kentucky Derby does not convience TLC to drop kate like a hot potato, nothing will.

We are so sick of her.

readerlady said...

Tami - to see the black/gold sequined mini dress Kate wore to the Barnstable Brown Gala, go to http://www.imnotobsessed.com/2011/05/07/kentucky-derby-2011-kate-gosselin/. The dress is slutty, too short and very ill-fitting. Not at all appropriate for the occasion.

Marge, I feel sorry for Kate, too, but not for the same reasons you outline. I feel sorry for her because she had a husband who clearly adored her and who most women would kill to have helping them out around the house and with the kids, and she threw him away. I feel sorry for her because she is unable to enjoy her children for who they are - unique individuals with different personalities, talents, desires and needs. I feel sorry for her because she has alienated family, friends, co-workers, and neighbors and has only paid help as a support system. I feel sorry for her because she is riding for a fall that is coming sooner than she can know, and there will be no one to help her pick up the pieces. I feel sorry for her because she will be left with nothing. I feel sorry for her because she hasn't the wit, the intelligence or the insight to recognize that she is slowly but surely driving her children away and will one day be left completely alone. No amount of money or transitory fame will ever make up for what she has lost and will inevitably lose in her life. There's a poem by T.S. Eliot called "The Hollow Men". Kate is the hollow woman. There's nothing of substance there. And that is a tragedy, for her, for her children, and for anyone who ever loved her.

Pattypanda said...

There is just nothing graceful or poised about Kate. She has to try too hard. Would be a nice cocktail dress but not afternoon. Spring colors were the prettiest at the derby.

Historically Speaking said...

That getup also looks like an example of boudoir photography circa 1905. This getup won't impress anybody in 2011, but it just might get Teddy Roosevelt all hot and bothered.

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LOL! That was the era of high, stiff collars on blouses and dresses, and the Gibson Girl hairstyle. I'm sure if Teddy saw any skin revealed below the neck, he'd be hot and bothered. His wives, Alice and Edith, were nothing to write home about, so if he saw Kate in those floozy outfits, he would have stayed at home with her and never led the charge up San Juan Hill.

Sunrise, Sunset said...

Oh my word...where do I start.
If it wasn't so ridiculous, it would be scary.

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I only have two words for it. Good Lord.

cali-girl said...

WHY was she there? In the red carpet interview, she said she'd been there since Wednesday. She's really a nobody, so I'm confused.

Do you have to receive an invitation?? Pay to go? Why would anyone want to interview her when there are REAL celebrities there? I just don't get it.

She was asked if her kids would be watching the Derby. She had a "deer in the headlights" look for a minute, as if she truly did not know answer. She then, in fact, SAID she didn't know, but they were really JEALOUS that SHE was there. Who says those things about their kids????? Is this a contest of one-up-man-ship--see where I get to go and you don't? Plus this is a mostly adult event isn't it?

Anyway, I'm really sad that this was how she spent the days (and possibly also today?), leading up to Mother's Day--not with her eight children. THIS is a mother? I don't think so!

Anonymous said...

As a native Virginian who has attended TKD, Triple Crown events and many steeplechase/polo matches and raised money for charity, I was shocked by Kate's poor taste in clothing worn on the field and quite embarrassed for her, although I find her narcissistic and blaming in nature.

Like Sarach Ferguson's daughters, Kate has not learned that less is more in terms of elegant clothing- being overdressed is far worse than being underdressed.

A church type of dress worn with a tasteful hat would have been far better- Kate has never learned that she enjoys the type of clothing that wears her rather than her wearing it. Annoying and badly dressed plus speaks badly....walking fashion disaster and parent as well as human being- she can only understand things in relation to herself....

Yankee Doodle said...

"She then, in fact, SAID she didn't know, but they were really JEALOUS that SHE was there. Who says those things about their kids?????"

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The kids didn't know the name of the President of the United States, so I doubt if they ever heard of the Kentucky Derby.

ChurchMouse said...

"Marge said...
...I feel sorry for Kate."
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The quality of mercy is not strain'd,
It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven
Upon the place beneath. It is twice blest:
It blesseth him that gives and him that takes.

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I think that it is kind to feel pity for Ms. Gosselin.

Let's hope she can drop the act and reach out to folks in the industry who can help her--Paul Peterson, for one. One phone call. That's all she needs to make.

Shoka's Understudy said...

Those poor kids! kate, how much more fuel are you going to give other kids so they can they can can make fun of them tomorrow?

There so JELLUS! I just can't believe you said that and put that much more stress on your precious children!

I wish the reporter who was interviewing her would of said after the Jellus statement:

I don't think they are Jellus, they are just thrilled to be mom and film free for several days and spending time with their father.

You are despicable, kate.

Payson48 said...

I haven't watched the show for quite some time but was wondering if the kids still interview on the couch. Does khate let them talk at all? Not filming in the house must cut down on the kids making comments and interacting with each other.

Pattypanda said...

Gotta laugh, Kate says she isn't cooking tonight cuz it's mother's day. Hasn't she been traveling/vacation for more than a week now anyways?

Payson48 said...

Has anyone noticed khate ONLY SMILES when out of Pennsylvania and away from her kids? As a matter of fact NO ONE smiles when around her. Ck. out Purseboy,and her BFF Jamie and her children---
the common denominator is KHATE.....what is it about you khate that puts a sour face on everyone? HMMMMMM?

Wife of a Pap People said...

Lordie Bee, I just saw the interview of Kate.

She can't talk without someone talking into her ear, can she?

My Hubby was right, he said she changed so many times that someone had told him, she was ready to go straight from the Derby to bed and now I can see why.

It is so sad, isn't it? She really looks as though she had a terrible day and that she, herself, is wondering why she is there, as it must have been very boring for her plus to sit and stand all afternoon like that before the Derby Race ran for all of 2 minutes. Oh my, she was
not happy.

Well, when she can't control the situation,with help, very professional help, she falters. I guess that is the way she is at home too.

Do you think she is just plain tired of being on that wheel, like the Gerbels do? I mean the Gerbel does it to entertain, then stops and that nose gets going with his eating little nibbles.

All these years of her pretending to be something she is not has caught up with her. That Derby did her in, big time.

Well, I must say something about the hat, right? Where in the world did she get it and why in the world would she think she looked good in it. Did Steve tell her she looked good and she takes his word for it, like the size of her "girls"? I mean that hat was like something that no one wanted. You would have told someone to wear that, only if you wanted them to look bad, real bad and she looked terrible.

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

Can you believe her children might not even know where she is or what it is about?

Wonder what she did when they played My Old Kentucky Home? Did she look for the horse? lol lol lol lol lol lol.

My Hubby better have some more things to tell me, he said I would have to make my own judgments, but then he laughed and I wondered what was up his sleeve that he knew something about. Well, I'll tell you, if they get a hold of her on SNL she could be the weekly Ho character because she looks really rode hard and put away wet. Must have been a hot sun and those feathers huh? lol lol lol lol lol....oh my....Karma is wonderful

Reading Observer said...

I do agree, being at the Derby all week would be a drain, if you were not interested in those type of people who love horses, racing and betting. Then to stand, sit outside under that hot sun most of the afternoon must have really been the most work she did in years.

Kind of too funny isn't it?

But the hat is too much, I mean the hat is too much, she didn't want any sun on her face? It was the last hat? Someone told her feathers were good luck? Her stylist hates her?

Too bad, so glad.

Beck And Call Girl said...

She looked like a hooker who didn't want anyone to know she's a hooker, so she dressed up in her "best" hooker clothing, thinking it made her look rich and classy.

It was a case of putting the proverbial lipstick on a pig.

Too bad Edward Lewis (Richard Gere) wasn't there to give her a credit card to shop for beautiful, tailored clothing or to tell her to spit the gum out of her mouth; or Barnard Thompson (H├ęctor Elizondo) to tell her not to slouch and teach her some manners.

Pretty Woman she wasn't.

Pattypanda said...

Kate just looks so out of her league. Kate is in desperate need of a stylist if she ever goes to another "event". http://www.kentuckyderby.com/news/photos/fashion

kate can't do sh** said...

God, Kate pisses me off. Her tweet that she bought her kids Chinese food but boring little ol' me, I'm having steamed veggies and brown rice. If she wasn't trying so hard to go Hollywood, I would say great. Good for you for being so committed. But this has gone on for years now, with her OCD personality, going overboard on her diet to appeal to men (Steve) and future TV gigs, it makes me want to puke. Then again, she's probably eating like a mouse so that she can drink like a heifer.

barnaby said...

In her quest for more-more-more and mine, ALL mine, this ridiculous woman has never seemed to enjoy anything. Not her children, not her new found wealth, not the freebies, not all the travel. Not even her newly enhanced body. Nothing makes her happy. She is so totally uncomfortable in her own skin that she makes everyone around her cringe.

And that is profoundly a shame. Because it does appear to be over. What an absolute waste of money and time spent on this lazy, unappreciative women.

SmileyGrl752 said...

Pattypanda said...

Gotta laugh, Kate says she isn't cooking tonight cuz it's mother's day. Hasn't she been traveling/vacation for more than a week now anyways?

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When does she ever cook? Doesn't she have a private chef? Also, I know people have said that she usually just hands out grapes, crackers, and some chips, but has this been confirmed? Just curious.

Tami said...

Tami - to see the black/gold sequined mini dress Kate wore to the Barnstable Brown Gala, go to http://www.imnotobsessed.com/2011/05/07/kentucky-derby-2011-kate-gosselin/. The dress is slutty, too short and very ill-fitting. Not at all appropriate for the occasion.

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Ah!OK, I had not seen these and now I'm going to have nightmares. Is she kidding? I'd imagine not many there had the orange tans and the tacky look like that. I hate that nasty crease above her fake boob. The expression on her face, the fake smile? Wow.

hannah said...

I hope the kids had a good weekend and I hoe they have a camara free summer. I do have a question. If Kate does lose her job. Will someone step in to help make sure she manages the money and doesnt take any of the kids money or blow it on tanning.


Then Again, a fan website pays for it *rolls eyes***

last2cu said...

OMG! I just saw a picture of her at the Derby and she had that horrible tattoo showing!!!!!

I just can't believe what she looked like.. And those open toed shoes with that hideous nail polish! Has she NO SHAME? I have been to all of those events and she must have been the laughing stock of the whole party.. The women at the Derby are the epitome of Ladies..Southern Ladies..Kate, you are WAY out of your league!! GO HOME and get your feed stack on..

Maggie said...

Photos of Kate in her short gold/black dress that she wore Saturday night. Notice how the dress itself is actually 2" shorter than the sheer slip.

http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/113824177

http://www.imnotobsessed.com/2011/05/07/kentucky-derby-2011-kate-gosselin-guy-fieri-maria-menounos-niki-taylor-marissa-miller-joey-fatone-wayne-brady-miranda-lambert/

Also go to the justjared website and you will see several photos of Kate in her WINTER feathered hat. Make sure to click on both photos of just of head. Press the zoom button. In one of the photos you can see she has acne. And in the other one with her mouth slightly ajarred, you can see that her top teeth are veneered but her bottom teeth are not. They are two different colors. Again, make sure you press the zoom button. YUCK!

Maggie said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aBcIasVO6l4

This is sooo funny. It is a rap song and tells the story about how she was so ugly to Jon in their marriage. It must have been produced during DWTS times.It sounds like professionals did this.

acertaingirl said...

Kate chose that get-up to assure she would be on all the Worst Dressed lists this week. Bad publicity is better than none you know!

Maggie said...

Wife of Pap: Thank you for the inside info. I loved the part about where she was stopped going to E.T. Hope she realised that she was a small pebble on that beach of royalty and real stars. Why on earth they wanted her, amazes me.
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I am confused, was Kate interviewed by ET or not? I thought someone on this blog said that Kate said the kids were jealous that she was at the derby. Was this in the ET interview? Was it shown on ET tv? Please can someone confirm if ET interviewed her? Thanks so much.

so sick of her said...

Saw the video of Kate at the airport w/purseboy. RUDE! RUDE! RUDE!, geez, she hardly thank that stupid fool that gave her flowers, was rude to the rest of the paps, they did not ask her hard or noisey questions. She could have answered them. What a bitch!

txmom said...

I feel *sorta* sorry for her. She tries SO HARD, yet she never gets it right (manners, speech, clothing, etc.)

She spends tons of money to try to look chic, hip, whatever....but that stupid tattoo always pulls her back to trash-dom. Sorry Kate, trash can't 'do' class.

She can say the kids weren't home while she was away....she could be lying. Those kids could have been home the whole time with nannies. I don't believe a word she says.

cali-girl said...

I am confused, was Kate interviewed by ET or not? I thought someone on this blog said that Kate said the kids were jealous that she was at the derby. Was this in the ET interview? Was it shown on ET tv? Please can someone confirm if ET interviewed her? Thanks so much.

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I posted about Kate on the red carpet. Don't know about ET--there are many "red carpets" at different kinds of events--like fashion shows, etc.

In this interview, it says "Kentucky Derby" in words and with logos on the wall in back of her. You don't see the interviewer. To find it again, I just yahooed "Kate Gosselin on the Kentucky Derby Red Carpet" and her interview video came up.

In watching it again, she was asked if she'd ever been before and says "I love it--I'm going to do it every year."

Her favotite part? She looked flustered and then said "everything." (something my 7th grade students would say when they really didn't know an answer!)

She says she'll always bet on "8" and I don't think the interviewer "gets" the 8 part, at least not right away B/C Kate has to mention the 8 kids connection, and that's why she'll always choose the number 8.

She also shares that "All of us love to ride horses."

It's the www.courier-journal site
_sorry I can't seem to copy the whole URL here, but it's the Video Network section--you'll see it if you search on yahoo.

Brummygirl said...

Wife of Pap: Thank you for the inside info. I loved the part about where she was stopped going to E.T. Hope she realised that she was a small pebble on that beach of royalty and real stars. Why on earth they wanted her, amazes me.
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I am confused, was Kate interviewed by ET or not? I thought someone on this blog said that Kate said the kids were jealous that she was at the derby. Was this in the ET interview? Was it shown on ET tv? Please can someone confirm if ET interviewed her? Thanks so much.
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The interviews I saw, were not by E.T.

catfan said...

This video called "Dear sixteen year old me" should speak volumes to those addicted to tanning beds. Can anyone spell K--A--T--E?

As a birthday present to her kids, perhaps Kate will think what might happen if she gets sick.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4jgUcxMezM

Brummygirl said...

Last2cu said
The women at the Derby are the epitome of Ladies..Southern Ladies..Kate, you are WAY out of your league!! GO HOME and get your feed stack on..
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She would never make the cut at Ascot.

E said...

Kate can't do sh** said:

Tragic. Brutal. Painful. Embarrassing.
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Wow, that really was tragic, brutal, painful and embarrassing. She looked terrible, her interview was awkward, her body posture was defeatist. "Did you utilize any of your dancing skills?" Awkward beat. "Uhh. No." Not scintillating television.

"Still doing our show. I have, uh, MY show...coming up...soon...pretty much...whatever...comes my way..."

Really uncomfortable to watch.

Tamara said...

An answer for those who complain we are just jealous, in psychology they say that the things a person spends the most time accusing others of is the thing they hate most, are most embarrassed or guilty about in their own selves. I don't think I explained that very well, but I hope you understand the concept.

As for feeling sorry for Khate? I guess I do, in the way I pity anyone who isn't happy. But she will never learn or change her ways. She's a true narcsassist (sp?) and they can NEVER admit fault. She'll blame her unhappiness on others forever and always.

The Pap Is Back said...

Re: the ROL video of Kate and Steve at the airport. I guess there still are paps who will touch her with a 10-foot pole and even give her flowers. One pap, at least!

Mary said...

Hi

I don't eat Chinese does that restraunt do organic? yeah Katie brought home a pint of rice, a pint of thi? and another pint. thats it. Most people that would be enough for two but we can't over feed those kids


Mary

Chinese Garden In Berks said...

I don't eat Chinese does that restraunt do organic? yeah Katie brought home a pint of rice, a pint of thi? and another pint. thats it. Most people that would be enough for two but we can't over feed those kids

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Maybe I missed it, but where was it reported that she brought home a pint of rice, another pint of something and another pint? Did Kate say this?

I eat Chinese food often. My kids love it. Around here, they really cram rice and veggies into those small cartons. One carton easily serves three people, and one dish of sweet and sour chicken serves at least three people. IF she only got three cartons of food, I could see that there would be enough food for eight kids.

Star Light, Star Bright said...

Maggie asked: I am confused, was Kate interviewed by ET or not?

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I did see an ET video, so I guess she wasn't held back from going there. However, it wasn't on that one where she said that the kids were jealous. I'm not sure where that one came from. Could someone post a link, please?

Several Wives of pap people said...

Oh gals, someone wanted to know if Katie eventually got inter, and I don't know. but off the red carpet in her mini with her big feet, oh sorry I am so mean, she was refused entrance to ET and Steve had to pull her away or lead her strongly away. As those people who have that list of "let him in or her in" they have a bar with goodies and freebies and that is how they get the Stahs to wait for their 30 second or less interview. Katie really thinks she made friends "behind the scenes" with all of these people and the "front of the scenes too" it is the ficklest business in the whole world. You are hot or not.

Few of the photogs were doing pic/inter I heard. One of the inter was with one of "so called queen of etiquette for the KD", there are lots of them too. Said Kate's outfits were all wrong, duh?

For her to wear the short mini which does not fit her boobs was wrong. She should have been covered with a strapless, the dress should have come down to knees. Shoes should have been slingbacks, as foot too big for what she had, plus rounded toe would have made her foot look smaller.

The KD dress for her should have been a pink or blue 2 piece, like a khaki material or something flowing with a tank top that had glitter, take off jacket at night and she was ready for dancing or whatever they do at Sizzler or Mickey Ds when you can't get into the big places. Her hat should ave been one that sat on the back of her head or to the side as she has a long, big face, lol lol. Hubby said he is going to kill me, but I bet that is already on the Net, huh?

Her interview where she shrugs, etc. was result of long day at the track, too much sun, on her feet too long, no room for her to freshen up and too much to drink without eating. So we saw tipsy Katie during that Int.

Also she does not have the entourage that "tells her the truth" like Beth would or Jodie would have. TLC wants her to look bad so she gets press.no press was bad. She is making fool of herself w/theire blessing. There are photos of her gum smacking too.

I bet $ (like slots too) she was so sad she went, not catered to, not given a place to stay until the big race, had to be in the stands all day.Hot sun, too much to drink and angry.

See, Katie is not hot, no more pap people want her, people all over her. She is hanging by that thread as someone said. She should retreat now as she will keep doing these dumb things "asking Taylor Swift" for comp tkts etc on twit.

Talked to some other wives, some felt bad that TLC is making an heiny of her, but think she made her bed herself as there were big names there she had met, but never spent time with them and got to no them, always hiding with Steve. It hurt her with them.

Did view the youtube of the teen gals making like fans and we think they did that as a joke to get viewed. Those kids are not dumb as appear.

Will bet she flew coach back to her home and bitched thru the flt.

No info of people wanting to meet her who attended the KD, the biggie people, no one heard there were any requests for her to dine with them/meet them, etc.

Hubby did say temps flared thruout the day of the race and some reality housewives wanted to get out of there.

Some did get a cab and leave but I don't know who.

Also heard K had a puss on most of the day and her feet hurt her. she did get some pap people asking if she brought the hat back from Aussie or NZ.Steve was so close to her, keeping her calm the entire time.

yep, people can be mean too. LOL, heard he was at his wit's end w/ her too.

Reminds us of a song "hooray for Hollywood"..hum a few bars there gals, it was our dream come true with her.

Laurie said...

The "paps" at the airport were not there to stake out K8, they're there to catch any "celeb" that came through on the heels of the Derby. They had one giving out flowers to all moms in the hopes of getting them to stop for an interview. It must have been a slow news day to follow K8 and try for an interview.

txmom said...

Kate's latest mistake!
Kate Gosselin made a questionable sartorial choice attending the Kentucky Derby over the weekend.

The 36-year-old mother of eight showed off her svelte figure in a form-fitting black and tan dress paired with strappy black heels. Gosselin rocked a wide-brim black hat with feathers and contrarily demure teardrop pearl earrings.

But the divorcee probably wasn't tearing up the dance floor in her derby dress. At Friday's Barnstable Brown Derby Party in Louisville, Ky., she told Us Weekly her stint on Dancing with the Stars was an eye-opening experience.

"Never again," she said emphatically. "Not because it was a bad experience though -- it was an awesome experience -- but I clearly cannot dance."
Tell Us: Do you like Kate's Derby look?
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Why does she lie? When she was on DWTS, she said she could do the dances 'perfectly', yet when it came time to perform them before the judges, she get nervous and couldn't do it.
This woman just lies and lies like a dirty rug........

The Pap Is Back said...

The "paps" at the airport were not there to stake out K8, they're there to catch any "celeb" that came through on the heels of the Derby.

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If they wanted nothing to do with her, however, and if they thought they couldn't sell the photos, they wouldn't have bothered.

FYI said...

I am not sure if this has been mentioned but Kate is tweeting with Nanny Ashley. She goes by silverlining788
silverlining788 ashley dawn
happy mothers day @Kateplusmy8 :)
8 days until our summer begins!!!! <3 tell my kiddies i love them!
Kateplusmy8 @silverlining788 Omg. Will do. Good to hear from you! Cannot WAiT til you are done with school!
Yea she can not wait for Ashley to be done with school so she can dump her 8 kids on her. You think Ashley would keep her Twitter account protected. I am wondering if someone is bold enough to say to her
" tell us everything, tell it all" or question her motives as why she has stuck by Kate so long. We all remember Carla had to protect her blog because of posters inquiring minds about Kate.

Shoka's Understudy said...

In the video of the pap giving kate the pretty pink flowers, in the background on the left is a little cart with the same bouquets of flowers that are for sale.

A young man is standing at the cart and looks like his wife to the side with their baby.

When the pap walked up to her and gave them to her, kate tensed up and looked at PurseBoy like, WT? and he looked at her, like, stern like, it's ok, keep going.

When they are continuing on, kate is shaking her head side to side like she is so irritated and she actually chomps her chewing gum harder.

What is wrong with this woman?

The sale of that bouquet of flowers just helped a small family in need. He just has 2 bouquets left. You never know about people kate, that bouquet of flowers could very well of bought their supper for the night.

Then you stop buy and get 2 maybe 3 containers of Chinese food. My goodness, what I had to cook my 3 growing boys. Her boys don't eat jack. They all grew up and they work out in the gym daily and are in great physical shape.

You are just one cruel bee, kate.

You could give the flowers to your five girls. Don't worry about getting the boys anything, you can't stand to be around them.

So glad your Kentucky Derby trip was a flat out bomb/bust. She'll chuck those flowers as soon as she can when she gets into a bathroom with PurseBoy guarding the door.

Mary said...

hi

It was not posted but we all know Kate would never over feed thise kids. I never seen what a Chinese take out but I am sure it was not enough to feed 8 kids a normal amount

Mary

RyzandShyn said...

I confess, I HAD to go find those pictures when I read about them here. How funny are they? Inappropriately dressed for the occasion once again. It's just terrible.
Also terrible was the thread of comments I read through (at one site that had the pictures) of people justifying her not being home with the kids on Mother's Day weekend. People actually saying that a good Mother's Day treat is to be away from the children for the weekend.
Really? I can't see it for the life of me.

Reading Observer said...

I saw where Chris Meloni, the co star of Law & Order, Special Victim's Unit, was at the Derby, he took his wife. He was truly shocked when told that there were a "couple" gals waiting for him and had been waiting for a long time, he was shocked "me?" and he went right over to where they were, took pics, signed autographs, then people lined up and he just stood and signed away, thanking everyone. He said, "I never get asked for an autograph, we work out of a studio most of the time, so we hardly know about the fans "of the show" and he was so humble. His wife smiled and was so kind and patient, she even took the photos with the fan's cameras.

Now, can you imagine, that show has been on NBC for what over 12 yrs or something close to that or older, he has emmy awards for HBO shows he did, nominated for everything from Golden Globe to Emmy's and even I think was on Broadway, but he is hardly ever noticed, even when they film on the streets of NY, as people are use to them and filming and just smile and yell "hey, yo" that kind of thing.

Well, that is one very talented man and he was thrilled he was invited to the KD, said he never had been invited and he couldn't believe the invites to meet the owners,like attended home dinners, etc.

Wow and then we have Katie, blowing off the guy trying to sell a bouquet of flowers, how sad, how very sad, she couldn't even pose for some photogs who may have been amateurs trying to sell pics, whether they get money or not, it gives them a start.

She is so over the moon over herself, she has no idea how close to the bottom she is. As I heard today, there is a book about "Being so low to the ground, you have to look up at the book" and I think our Kate is near that.

As to How and When she began to believe the things she read about herself in the very beginning of the KJ8 days and STILL believes she has that popularity? Is this called denial or a degree of mental illness that never, ever can be cured?

Will they close off the TLC lot and have to call the Police to keep her from yelling "I belong on TV, I am a TV Star, I work there, I made those people wealthy?" as she is dragged away and then when they put her in that cell in the sanitorium she will be yelling at the top of her lungs, "you just put me in here to protect me from those things called fans can't get to me, I'm really here because I am safe here"....

Something has happened to her head to think that she belonged at the Derby but then to dis people selling a bouquet of flowers and "tsk" it as though "I can't go anywhere and have a normal life".....to Steve, who still has his conjugal visits.

Me thinks she is crazier than a bed full of bedbugs and she may scare her kids into that filming more than we know.

Someone asked why Ashley stays in touch with Kate or works for her? She is not crazy, Ashley gets to travel, she gets to circle the big stars in the business and she gets paid very well, probably, by TLC plus Kate keeps promising her "her old clothes if Ashley would lose weight" and then again, Ashley probably wears the same size shoe and she gets to wear them around the McMansion. Oh and yeah to put toilet paper in her bra and pretend she is Kate Gosselin.

WTF, really, it is all very, very crazy.

What we don't realize is that Kate's kids will always be wanted by TV minus their mother. They still have a following on the Net with some sites. Pedaphiles hang out.

Yeah, close this Mother down, PLEASE.

Dream A Little Dream said...

Something has happened to her head to think that she belonged at the Derby but then to dis people selling a bouquet of flowers...

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She didn't diss anyone selling flowers. The pap bought the flowers at an airport cart (they were being sold for charity) and gave them to her and wished her a happy Mother's Day.
However, she was anything but polite to him.


"What we don't realize is that Kate's kids will always be wanted by TV minus their mother.:

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I disagree. I think the time is going to come when they no longer are cute, no longer are a draw on television, and sadly, may go the way of many child stars who found out that they wouldn't always have producers knocking on their doors.

Dream A Little Dream said...

Did view the youtube of the teen gals making like fans and we think they did that as a joke to get viewed. Those kids are not dumb as appear.

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It was no joke. Some of them have been tweeting nonstop about how wonderful Kate is; one of them in particular has been an uber fan for sometime, singing her praises on her Facebook page. You don't carry on like that if it's a joke. That's what is so sad about that whole thing. They are serious...dead serious, and not too bright.

Warmth Of The Sun said...

Pap commented,

Hubby went to the Derby, he has about 15 photogs there, several horse mags/sports mags, etc. want photos

$$$$$$$$$$$

"He has" about 15 photogs there? Is he the employer of these photogs? What do you mean by "he has" them there?

You said that "Yet, she wasn't photographed,"

I'm sorry. I don't understand this. There are many photos of her on the internet, as well as a red carpet interview. She WAS photographed.

how depressing said...

3 cartons of Chinese food for 9-10 people?? Wow. One thing is for sure: Kate must have had to use her own money to pay for it. All that money she wasted on those hideous Derby outfits and she pinches pennies to feed the kids. She must have been in a rush to get home to throw away any mother's day cards her kids may have been foolish enough to make for the ungrateful bitch. Even crappy moms get cards when kids are that young.

Pattypanda said...

Boy, Steve the "Boobyguard" sure was not in any kind of "protective" mode in the airport video. Would a real body guard be bogged down with carry on bags? Kate still chews gum like a cow. This "lady" is clueless. I don't even know young girls that chew gum that bad. Try mints Kate, you won't look like a heifer chewing her cud.

Kokomo, Cocktails, and Dreams said...

"Ashley probably wears the same size shoe and she gets to wear them around the McMansion. Oh and yeah to put toilet paper in her bra and pretend she is Kate Gosselin."


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I don't know what size shoe Ashley wears or if she "stuffs," but I think this is kind of hitting below the belt, commenting that a babysitter does this.

Ashley may be an opportunist or may not be an opportunist and, in fact, really loves the kids, but in my opinion, we don't really why she chooses to stay connected with this family.

Maggie said...

Well I think I caught Kate in a big, fat lie. All verified by her own twitter remarks and her interview with Courier-Journal.com interview. In the interview she clearly states that she arrived at the Derby on Wednesday, May 4. And that makes sense because the luncheon was on Thursday.

But on May 4, her first twitter comment of the day was, "Home sweet home. I was took my little girls out west. I like 2 take kids in small groups 1/yr nonfilmed 2 spend qual X tog.had a total blast! Then much later on Wed. May 4, she twittered, "Well,GN.Lots2do be4 I'moff2the races(derby, lol) in next few days..can u hearme galloping2bed? Gotta get sleep&get house back in order 1st." Then a few more twits later on May 4 she wrote, "Phone is dying. No charger nearby. Will tweet y'all later (gettin ready to go to derby lol)!" She said Good night on May 4th and a few more comments later she again said that she was "gettin ready to go to derby".

What a freakin liar. She said she arrived on Wed. May 4 in KY. So let's say she arrived late in KY on Wed. Why then would she write on Wed. May 4th good night...lots to do before I go to the derby in the next few days.(exact quote above).

Am I thinking right and she has been caught red handed in a huge lie. And I tell you why she lied. Because she was gone from her home either from April 27 or 28 and didn't return home until May 4. How can she tell her devoted fans that she is leaving again that very day (May 4) to be gone until the evening of May 8. She left either on April 27th or 28th for trip with the girls and returned home on Wed, May 4. Then left sometime May 4 and returned on the 8th.

She was gone around 11 to 12 days--practically 2 weeks without seeing the majority of her children. Some mother and some liar she is.

Tami said...

One carton feeds three young kids. Been there, done that. She has eight kids. Maybe she and Steve ate somewhere else.
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She said she ate the Chinese food.

Tami said...

She was gone around 11 to 12 days--practically 2 weeks without seeing the majority of her children. Some mother and some liar she is.
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It could be true what someone said then about how she was lying because Jon said he took the kids shopping at the time she was claiming she was with them. I'll bet she made Jon stick to his one weekend visit anyway and the nannies took them the rest of the time. Jon must be a saint to not go off the deep end about what she does to those kids.

Tami said...

Ashley may be an opportunist or may not be an opportunist and, in fact, really loves the kids, but in my opinion, we don't really why she chooses to stay connected with this family.
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I think to most people it IS pretty clear.

Janine said...

What we don't realize is that Kate's kids will always be wanted by TV minus their mother. They still have a following on the Net with some sites. Pedaphiles hang out.

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I think history has shown that most child stars do not move gracefully and successfully on in their careers as they get older. I would think that children from a cable reality tv show would fare even worse.

The Gosselin children are not ugly, but they are not "star quality" attractive either. They are average kids, with apparently the no appearance of special talent such as singing, dancing, or other performance skills.

As to some strange folks who will become or already are obsessed with the kids -- it's sad but true that these children will never be able to fully leave their public childhood behind. Videos and pictures of their childhood will always float around on the internet, and creeps will no doubt follow them too.

That doesn't mean there will always be a place on tv for these children. In fact, I'd say their cuteness factor gets dimmer with each passing month. Babies and toddlers are cute; 7 year olds with anger issues are not; their older twin sisters approaching adolescence are not.

I hope they get off tv soon and can enjoy some privacy for awhile.

Brummygirl said...

I watched DWTS tonight, the contestants this year are great.
Burned into my brain forever, will be Kate's "pap...pap..pap.... paparazzi" dance. I hope they can surgically remove it!!!
If not, I will be forever haunted by a galloping galumper in red and black.!!

cali-girl said...

I watched DWTS tonight, the contestants this year are great.
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I was watching last night and just thinking the same thing. The "stars" and their dancing partners are so supportive of each other--the celebs get frustrated at times, but learn to accept the comments from judges and partners well, and their dancing continues to improve.
Anyway, was thinking of how nice and patient Tony Dovolani was with Kate (who else gets a practice dance floor in their own home and still continues to complain, be unappreciative and be mean to their partner?)
What I don't understand is why she's still around?

OK mag reports Steve was her escort at one of the pre-Derby parties--she took his arm, went to the coffee bar and then sat around the pool with him, according to their report. Also picked up some swag along the way.

Shoka's Understudy said...

The picture of kate where she is wearing the brown gold mini dress, bare legged with the open toe shoes, take a second look, if you can tolerate it.

Scroll down to where the hem of the dress is, where her upper body is blocked and you can just see the legs and shoes and of course the tattoo of Winnie the Pooh.

This does not look like someone who dressed for the KD. From the hem down looks like a street walker. Pure trash.

She must of gotten the venues mixed up. She dressed for the Porn Derby instead of the Pony Derby!

lipo scars said...

If you look at closeups of her bare legs in that hideous gold number, you can see the lipo scars above her knees, especially the left one. The woman looks paunchy and pregnant (blechhhh) in that dress

Cheetah said...

Well, today is the sextuplets' seventh birthday. I hope they have a modest celebration with no cameras. Maybe they will receive regular chairs for the dinner table and can get rid of their high chairs now.

Gaby said...

The sextuplets turn 7 today. There is a report that Khate will throw two parties. One will be a "family" party and there will be another party that will be filmed by TLC.

http://blogs.babble.com/famecrawler/2011/05/10/today-is-gosselin-sextuplets-7th-birthday-kate-throwing-two-parties/

Reading Observer said...

This may be a repeat, new laptop, so apologies to the Moderators.

Dream a little...No, I do not think the teens are true blue fans, not when I viewed the you tube and saw their outfits, view it again. Plus the tweeting, they are having fun with Kate.

That is the way I see it. Why? I do not believe Kate is a bright person. I believe she has been taken in by everything associated with TLC from the very beginning.

She does believe what was once written and reported about her. Now, due to her lack of understanding that just because she gave birth to multiples makes her a star; it will keep her on TV or in the infamous limelight, well I think as I mentioned before, she is not bright and she believes someone or her manager or publicity person that "she is here to stay" as her children are the draw. No matter what she does, even the tour of the NCC and not explaining any history of this country of ours, that is TLC dictating what they want to film.

I do work down in Philly and all around the State at times, but I spend a lot of time with parent(s) who need to reconnect due to being absentee parents for many reasons. I have gone to that bldg., and I have looked thru what a small child as well as a teen might be interested in and there is definitely a lot. It is a place a parent(s) who has trouble talking to their child, again, can find something to teach or discuss with their child.

This whole journey Ms. G is now taking on attending Derby day, etc., is her last attempts to stay in the spotlight. Lots of people are invited to that Derby, lots of the A listers, as they are called, do not attend, Kate was no one's first choice. She lucked out. Depending upon what else was going on that weekend, wherever in this country, like Vegas, etc., well, as I said Kate got lucky, but they did reach the bottom of the barrel with having her attend and the float thing.

Actually, the float with the guards and Steve is kind of funny. If Bin Laden had that many guards, he wouldn't have been killed by the wonderful military. It feeds her ego and her ego is very, very large.

Even Jon mentioned her ego during his Larry King interview and I do believe that he was the reason that show was a hit. He was the loving parent.

Think about all of those shows, other than trips, in that house. All you ever saw was those children fighting with each other, it was truly very sad. Kate screaming and Jon trying to follow directions, but at bedtime, their little lives became normal as he bathed them, hugged them and tucked them in.

Those are some of the things that may help those children in later years. They will remember the love and be able to give love as Cara and Mady do with their siblings.

Perhaps she wore those outfits to get mentioned in magazines, I don't know, but it is obvious that she craves attention; otherwise, why not refuse to look like a street walker? Or does she admire street walkers? Could be that it is sexy to her.

Wives of Pap People said...

Oh now I can get in trouble, or we gals can get in trouble. When I said Hubby was there with 15 or so photogs for various publications, etc., I cannot be specific, but I did tell you in a previous post that there were hundreds of photogs there.

Remember this is the Kentucky Derby. Every publication and web site from Racing Mags to Fashion Mags to Horse mags to Homes of the Rich & Famous and all kinds of publications that we don't even know about, even the car mags were there. This is a double big event.

Hubby and his people, no I cannot tell you who they work for, etc., Please understand that, were not there for STAHS BUT SOMETHING TOTALLY different. He loves to get me info though because he knows what goes on with our gal, Katie, and I love it and pass it to you.

Of course she was photographed, everyone was, was she a main interview on ET? I don't think that happened, did jazzjared interview her? Maybe, I really do not know. I know her clothes made news.

One last thing, when there is that one pap person taking pics of every last person arriving, you never know who he represents, every airline baggage claim area was covered by a pap person, as Katie likes to call them. One never knows who they work for.

Most are assigned to what they do, like ordered "get shots of everyone" and the poor guy or gal stands there trying to get someone like a Katie to just smile, so he tries to hand her a bouquet and she refuses it. It really hurts HER, not the pap person as she does not know who they represent. She is not bright as I just read from another post is really correct.

No one invades her so called space, unless you are one of those people who is in the news that everyone wants a shot of or you are special. She was lucky someone wanted to hand her flowers and get her photo. Those days may be a thing of the past in a very short while.

We gals and there are several of us post because we hate that those kids are on TV and we dislike her and what she has said about our Hubbies. Most are doing a job and make you look good, so damn it, just smile and walk away.

Her problem with the pap people is because she brought that down on herself with that damn divorce and she said, he said, no money and all that craziness that went on, she brought it on herself and so did Jon, so the photogs stook guard waiting for a photo. Remember she loved it and she loved running away like she was Princess Diana at the time. Now she should be lucky if she got that hat, several dresses and a few tee shirts from the freebie bags, honest injun. Some people walked away with more than they give at the Grammy Awards. Big money at that Derby.

Okay? Hope I answered, but I can't jeopardize any jobs.

Trust me, you read what I say on the on line anyway. I just give you a heads up. Or rather we do.

readerlady said...

Anyone taking any bets on whether Jon will be allowed to attend his children's birthday party this year?

Disrepect her and him said...

Hi, I do think I heard somewhere or I read this that when we didn't have the internet and all those things that bring us into immediate contact with each other that the instead of the Criminals knocking at the door, and we had to decide whether to let the criminal in or not, that now we bring the Criminals into our house (skype, twitter, on line)and don't even realize this.


I think I heard this on one of the crime shows that quotes famous people at the end of each show. What struck me as so very odd was that the person who wrote that quote, although I paraphrased it, was back in the day when we didn't even know about computers other than the big old computer from the
1950s. I forget who said it, what show or which was the big computer, oh yes the Univac. I guess that ages me.

So when the Gosselins go off of TV, someway they will stay in the news by way of this computer huh?

For the sake of the children I wish there was a law, but there isn't as Kate and Jon allowed those kids to be photographed on the potty chairs and all of that, so it will remain on youtube and in personal computer files.

If she had a dating show, it would be good as she could just have bachelors that were all state troopers or FBI agents or someone who would not be pushed around by Kate. It would be someone who didn't love her as much as she loved him cause I think Jon really loved her more than she loved him to put him in the garage.

Can someone tell me why he went and slept in the garage when he had a big mansion? That is something I will never understand.

I also think, sorry, but that when she had someone to tell her what to say, she sounded like she had a brain in her head. Now, TLC must have taken the person who use to talk into her ear because she does sound stupid.

LancNative said...

Can someone tell me why he went and slept in the garage when he had a big mansion? That is something I will never understand.

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At that point, the marriage was on the rocks (when they moved to the new house) and so he didn't sleep in the same bedroom. It wasn't known to the public, however, that divorce was imminent until a few months later

Do You Believe? said...

"We gals and there are several of us post because we hate that those kids are on TV and we dislike her and what she has said about our Hubbies. Most are doing a job and make you look good, so damn it, just smile and walk away."

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Who is "we?" Someone was posting here under "Wife of Pap," and now as "Wives of Pap people." Is there more than one person writing these posts? I am really confused, and quite honestly, have a hard time believing any of it.

"Of course she was photographed, everyone was, was she a main interview on ET? I don't think that happened,"

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The other "Wives" posted that Steve led her away from the ET interview because she wasn't allowed back there, and now this person or person is posting that they don't know if she was interviewed. The other person posting said that she was not photographed, and now this person is posting that she was photographed.

When you keep switching names, it's really hard to figure out which Pap Wife is doing the posting.

amykins said...

Holy cow, that cow is a hot, feathery mess!

Don't hate me but...I really liked that "Grace Kelly" look on Katie in People magazine. I thought it made her look more refined and a little elegant without going over the top.

Is there any chance Kate can hire the stylist responsible for that look?

Her Derby dress and hat were horrific. If you're going to wear a "CAN YOU BELIEVE I PUT THIS ON MY HEAD" hat then at least make it classy tacky or just wild fun.

Her look was not "wild" in a good way at all.

I can't believe that someone who has strutted in front of cameras of all kinds can STILL look so wooden and stunned in every photo she's in.

Celebrities manage to showcase style and poise either in modest or racey (pun intended) clothing - Kate can't seem to manage that.

Even a store personal shopper would do a better job of dressing Kate than Kate does.

It's just so sad...that she has come this far and yet hasn't managed to leave her simple roots behind.

Every time I see her french manicure talons I cringe. Where I live, they are considered quite tacky and a favour of the less than dignified crowd.

She's without class or taste and clearly isn't above using her fake boobies to draw attention to herself.

At this point, given the above, I'm surprised there's anyone left who gives a rat's butt about her.

Before The Parade Passes By said...

Someone commented about Kate and Steve on a float with guards at the Derby. I missed that. I saw a photo of her in a pink dress on the back of a car, but not on a float. Does anyone have a link of her on a float with a multitude of guards? I'd like to see that one...

Thanks in advance!

Red Sky At Night said...

Now, TLC must have taken the person who use to talk into her ear because she does sound stupid.

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The person who "used to" talk into her ear is still talking into her ear because in various interviews you can see her fiddling with hair and touching her ear. Either the person isn't doing a very good job at prompting, or Kate just isn't listening.

Moon Over Miami said...

Philadelphia Worker said: "I have gone to that bldg., and I have looked thru what a small child as well as a teen might be interested in and there is definitely a lot. It is a place a parent(s) who has trouble talking to their child, again, can find something to teach or discuss with their child."

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What building is "that bldg?"

Shoka's Understudy said...

On kate's tweet she has a picture that I am pretty sure PurseBoy took. It is kate standing posing where the big wigs were. Men in suits. She is out in the middle, no one else close and the dress was just so inappropriate. You can see her boobs, looks like fancy lingere and it looks weird with all the suits around.

She is nuts.

here is the link:

http://yfrog.com/gy3bysymj

Nova said...

You know, Khate really enjoys her role as the overworked, underappreciated victim. She has a limited number of lines to describe her life: "No one knows how to help me", "My husband left and now I have all these bills to pay.", "My ex-husband doesn't spend enough time with the kids, and they're suffering as a result", etc.

Every line Khate has can be easily translated into its true meaning. "No one know how to help me" means "None of you idiots seem to realize that I'm the most important thing around, and you should all be turning yourselves inside out to please me. Why can't you understand this?"

"My husbnd left and now I have all these bills to pay" means "I finally got that moron to go, and now I want a lot of sympathy from you about it. After all, I was stuck with him for ten years, and I want compensation for putting up with him for all that time!"

"My ex doesn't spend enough time with the kids, and they're suffering" means "I keep him away as much as possible, because the little twerps like him better. They act out because they don't like the way I treat them when I'm around, and they don't like that I keep Jon away from them, but they're just stupid little kids, and if Jon were the proper kind of ex-husband, he'd be telling them that he doesn't want anything to do with them and that they should be grateful that I gave birth to them!"

I'm sure that there are a few other lines she uses to get the attention she needs, I just can't think of them right now. But the bottom line always boils down to: "Pay attention to me! Nothing else matters, as long as you're all looking at ME!"

I feel sorry for Jon and the kids. I hope that this fiasco results in new laws to prevent future kids from being used and abused as these kids are. In the meantime, Khate makes all my childrearing mistakes look like nothing. My kids are all alive, healthy, and have either graduated from high school or college, or are doing well in high school. None of them have criminal records, and they weren't allowed to hold after-school jobs or get their drivers licenses unless they had good grades. They weren't even allowed to keep personal pets until they'd proven that they were responsible. In short, we're pretty darned average, and when I think of Khate's kids, I feel sorry for them; not so much for my own.

Save the Gosselin 8

Nova

Tizzie said...

I don't see why they need to have a TLC-filmed birthday party. If having it on film is that important to her, she should buy a video camera and do make her own regular home video of the tups on their ACTUAL birthday - opening their presents, playing with their new toys, blowing out the candles on their cake.

And if friends are involved she needs to do a Google search for proper kids' party games, unlike last year's orange-squeezing BS.

Maggie said...

Wifes of Pap People:
I don't think that happened, did jazzjared interview her? Maybe, I really do not know.
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There is no such thing as jazzjared. Did you mean justjared?

Pattypanda said...

People.com has a pic of two young girls with a dress very similar to Kate's dingley dangly number. If she had better posture, maybe it would look better on her. http://www.peoplestylewatch.com/people/stylewatch/gallery/0,,20159269,00.html

Joe's Mom said...

http://www.businessinsider.com/heres-why-advertisers-are-obsessed-with-sandra-bullock-2011-5#ixzz1LmjjPftZ

Just saw this via CNN - Khate is ranked 20th most hated celebrity by some firm that ranks 'em so advertisers know who is worth having as a sponsor, etc.

E said...

Another Party...said

"I can't believe the gall of kate. Having 2 birthday parties."
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I think the first "filmed" party was done last month. Now she's having a private party that isn't supposed to be filmed. I seem to remember her saying something on twitter about how TLC was filming the "party" a while back.

Proud Grandma said...

Shoka's Understudy said...
On kate's tweet she has a picture that I am pretty sure PurseBoy took. It is kate standing posing where the big wigs were. Men in suits. She is out in the middle, no one else close and the dress was just so inappropriate. You can see her boobs, looks like fancy lingere and it looks weird with all the suits around.

She is nuts.
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Fredricks of Hollywood comes to mind. The boa feathers are not supposed to be on her head.

Brummygirl said...

On kate's tweet she has a picture that I am pretty sure PurseBoy took. It is kate standing posing where the big wigs were. Men in suits. She is out in the middle, no one else close and the dress was just so inappropriate. You can see her boobs, looks like fancy lingere and it looks weird with all the suits around.

She is nuts.

here is the link:

http://yfrog.com/gy3bysymj\
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Well, that one was obviously taken in the cafeteria, see the food on the plates.
No one is looking at her, this is so funny. I guess that is the only place she had to take personal boobyguard photos.
Anyone for salmonella chicken? :)

Leigh Ann said...

On kate's tweet she has a picture that I am pretty sure PurseBoy took. It is kate standing posing where the big wigs were. Men in suits. She is out in the middle, no one else close and the dress was just so inappropriate. You can see her boobs, looks like fancy lingere and it looks weird with all the suits around.

She is nuts.

here is the link:

http://yfrog.com/gy3bysymj
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Somewhere a lamp is missing its shade.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

Let's face it, if Kate paid as much attention to her kids and their well-being, as she did/does to her ego, the cameras, media,etc.. these kids would be so very much better off.

Philadelphia Worker said...

From the photos in the strapless dress maybe hitting the mint juleps real early?

Profiles of her not her good side. Horseface,could have saddled her.

That bldg talked about is the National Constitution Center, where every President since G. Washington is posted. Think you can hear some of their speeches. All ages have fun and get some knowledge or educationalish stuff.

Moon Over Miami said...

From the photos in the strapless dress maybe hitting the mint juleps real early?

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Links, please!

tweetiegirl said...

Kate wants us to believe that her kids did this Bananagram about her:
http://yfrog.com/z/hsmtomj

She has really lost it. ugh.