Advice to All of Us from "Kate's Friend"

Kate HAS THE RIGHT to earn a living.
You CANNOT or WILL NOT EVER tell her how to raise her children.
You DO NOT sign her paychecks.
You DO NOT pay her bills.
You DO NOT put food on her table.
You CANNOT decide her career choice.
You CANNOT tell Kate what she should wear.
You CANNOT decide how she styles her hair.
You CANNOT decide where Kate and her children will live.
You CANNOT EVER tell Kate to let her irresponsible ex-husband, Jon, to stay in HER house when she is away for whatever reason.
DO NOT watch Kate on TV if you don’t like her.
DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her.

Submitted by Kate G's Friend.

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KatesDancingHooves said...

ummm....HI KATE!

Ex-neighbor said...

Dear "Kate's Friend" er babymama, you DO NOT get to tell me what to do either.

I See Red Coming On said...

Oh, just feel my blood boil while I even begin to decide how to comment.

Aunty Kim Kim said...

I agree..
HI KATE. HI KATE HI KATE!!!!!
So, is all the truth getting you mad? WOW..I'm amazed.,..considering you don't have any other emotions, especially when it comes to the children.....
WOW...we have actually gotten an 'arousal' out of Kate...hummmm.

I really hope she crashes..
UNFORTUNATELY all the contestants stay for the first week, as they don't start eliminating till the second week this time.......probably because they only have 11 teams.?? I don't know,..maybe they knew Kate would be gone, so her PR people ensured to do this differently this time.
WHAT power evil people do have.

GOD, we are all praying for these children!! I know they've got Nannies, but I really hope some of these caregivers are 'emotionally' giving them everything they can, so they can rely on someone!!!

Thank goodness that one day these children can hear how many MILLIONS of people where praying & trying to get them help & love!!!! Maybe that will make SOME difference in their choices in the future!!

Back To School said...

Uh, she puts herself out there; she can't expect to escape public comment.

Ever hear of a free country? Freedom of speech; freedom of expression and opinion?

Take a history lesson.

Missy said...

If Kate wants to avoid all critique of her mothering and lifestyle, she should step away from the cameras. KATE is the one that sold out her family and life for the world to see but now she thinks she is above being talked about? Ha ha - that's a good one!!

Janet said...

This whole blog is not about KATE...it is about the children. But someone so wrapped up in themselves will be blind to the truth.
Why don't you worry about the children at risk instead of Kate's right to be a negligent mother?

Hey White Liar said...

Is "Kate's Friend" in 7th grade?

GoPoshGo said...

Kate has a friend?

KatesDancingHooves said...

Picketers outside Women's Expo in South Bend...
protesting the show participants/vendors, AND Kate Gosselin.

*LOVE IT*

jibberjabbers said...

Good one Kate. But we all know you don't have any friends.

PA Mom of 2 said...

Picketers/protesters outside South Bend Women's Expo:
Noel Ullery, another IUSB student, said "an event like this should empower women. And the fact that they invited Kate Gosselin (to be keynote speaker) over some of the amazing women in this community, speaks for the event."
__________

Hahahaha

Ohio Buckeye said...

Wow, lots of "may NOTs" going on here. A real K8 Clone.

What happens if we DO these heinous things on this list? Will we all be recipients of the dreaded 'penalty of severeness'??

Be Afraid, Be Very Afraid.

And BTW, this is exactly K8's problem: no one CAN tell her ANYTHING because she believes she is The Knower of All Things Significant. People with this attitude tend not to do very well in the long haul of life. And because of the many people this attitude offended, there will be many who will not shed a tear when K8's Karma Train arrives.

Sheri said...

In response to Kate G's "friend"...

Kate's kids have the right to a stable family life.
Kate's kids have the right to be raised in a LOVING and STABLE environment.
I PAY MY CABLE BILL so in a way, yes I do.
I PAY MY CABLE BILL so in a way, yes I do.
I DON'T but craft services or the nanny does.
I DON'T but neither does Kate, that's TLC's job.
I DON'T but think Kate should fire whoever is.
I DON'T but think it's hilarious just the same.
I DON'T but as long as it's not near me.
I HAVE NEVER told Kate that her long suffering ex-husband doesn't have the right to stay in HIS KIDS' house when she is away.
I WON'T but thanks for the permission.
I WILL because someone has to defend the children she's "doing all of this for".

Ohio Buckeye said...

K8 has a friend??? Seriously?

I think K8 is her own and ONLY friend.

Always interesting to watch a person who is simultaneously her own best friend AND her own worst enemy.

Rock on, K8, you and your throngs of 'friends'.

ICSillyPeople said...

Hahahahahahahaha... Kate has a friend!!! ...hahah hee tee hee

KatesDancingFlintstoneFeet said...

C'mon!!!
We all know Kate HAS NO FRIENDS!
HI KATE! The "may NOT's" gave you away.

Shrew

ToTheMoonAlice said...

So no one can judge Kate, but it's OK for you to call Jon "irresponsible"? Nice double standard you've got going there, friend...And that makes me glad you're not MY friend!

Julianne said...

Wow...someone woke up a little grouchy this morning.

Let's see...last time I checked we are still protected under the First Amendment and have the right to freedom of speech.

Hence, even though I do not like or respect her... I will comment about her, make posts about her, form opinions about her, express my opinion on her hair style, clothing, parenting style, lack of personality, etc.and I will most certainly watch anything on T.V. that I want and read anything I want.

And I will do all of this just because I can. Yay...go me!

Anne said...

I love the "Do not comment about Kate if you don't like her."

Sad but true said...

You forgot some:

We CAN NOT make Kate a good mother.
We CAN NOT make Kate a good person.
We CAN NOT protect those children, no matter how hard we've tried.

Damage Control said...

But we CAN tell her that she's an (enter choice of expletive)can't we?

So which PAID 'friend' submitted this dreck?

my9cats said...

Kate (or friend):
If you don't like the comments (which by the way are far more truthful than anything you've spewed out)then don't put yourself in the position to receive them. You are your own worst enemy.

himods said...

;;;Ever hear of a free country? Freedom of speech; freedom of expression and opinion?;;;

I believe these ideals would apply to Kate also.

John Doe said...

yay for Kate's friend!!

Huh said...

Don't the children sign Kate's paychecks?

Midnight Serenade said...

Remember the February 2, 2009 interview with Larry King, in which King asked if having multiples was our business and Kate's reply was:

"K. GOSSELIN: Well, with our reality show, obviously, we put them out there. And, you know, our goal in our show is to show the real life of what it is like to have two sets of multiples. And basically, essentially, we've made it your business."

And as such, per her own words, it is our business. She made it such. Now a "friend" is claiming that we don't have a right to comment? You can't have it both ways, sweetheart.

Lynn W. said...

Oh my, someone got up cranky this morning. Send her some more coffee ... quickly!

I find someone posting a "DON'T" list to adults rather ridiculous but it is the privilege of free speech. No nameless, faceless stranger is a threat to any of us because we enjoy the right of freedom of speech as well.

Midnight Serenade said...

Remember the February 2, 2009 interview with Larry King, in which King asked if having multiples was our business and Kate's reply was:

"K. GOSSELIN: Well, with our reality show, obviously, we put them out there. And, you know, our goal in our show is to show the real life of what it is like to have two sets of multiples. And basically, essentially, we've made it your business."

And as such, per her own words, it is our business. She made it such. Now a "friend" is claiming that we don't have a right to comment? You can't have it both ways, sweetheart...or is she eating her own words right now?

PatK said...

At least Kate's "friend" didn't throw in the obligatory "you're just jellus"!

Tami said...

Um, honey...I just did tell her. YOU do not tell me what I can and can't comment on when it comes to someone who chooses to stay in the spotlight no matter how pathetic she looks. I am amused that you read this site. It shows that Kate does also, if you are not Kate herself : )

How did it get to be her house anyway? Jon was there earning money all along. If not for him, no one including you would even know who she was since she road the coattails of the kids HE created with her. And any "friend" of hers would just be someone trying to latch onto some form of her "fame".

Tami said...

P.S. Kate, you DID get a boob job, now admit it!

Tami said...

Translation: Only TLC can tell Kate what do as they are her puppetmasters : )

Still Not Watching Khate said...

I CAN and WILL not watch Khate and drop her desirability as a Reality Ho-Star with no talent.

I CAN and WILL voice my concern for children being raised as Little Moneybags with too much exposure to the public via the media as that is a WATCHDOG duty that all the public should be responsible for.

I CAN and WILL not watch, buy, support, click over on news or stories anything to do with KHATE.

Go head and make your money KHATE, but newsflash, TLC cannot make you into a star and your "value" to sell products via any television show due to viewership is extremely doubtful in my book... unless you are selling to 14 year old idiots who think forcing your kids into television slavery is a way to be a "good" parent.

ROFLMAO!

Let's see a cover on People to tell us you changed your hair less then two months ago, and now your hair changes again! And another cover!

Good luck on selling that PR rag whose only readership is in hair salons by the bored.

Laurie said...

Uh, you forgot one Kate....

You CANNOT tell Kate that she has to love her children more than she loves herself because on the 8th day God created KATE!!!

2exhausted2name said...

When Kate stops soliciting me for money I'll stop commenting on what she should & shouldn't do with the paycheck I help provide.

As for the house I helped buy it remains in both their names, until Kate buys Jon's half he's still half-owner and has every right to access his own property.

imummy said...

Hummm...I see Kate paid herself $20 to pretend she was her own friend to write this. That's kinda sad.

Kate is a Role Model for Life's Leaches said...

Oh Debbie, please let these people who care about children alone and go back to Farmville to continue your search for your life's path.

LisaNH said...

LOL. Too funny!! K8 has a friend. Riggggghhhht. I'm so believing this..NOT!!

Okay BM, we know it's you. I hate to tell you but you're not K8's friend. You may be facinated by her (to the point that may concern law enforcement) but you don't know her personally and she doesn't know you (she probably knows of you though).

You see, my dear, Kate has no friends. She uses people until their usefulness is depleted. The only thing that Kate has in her life right now is her money and her notariety. That will surely keep her warm at night, put an arm around her when she's sad, make her laugh when she is feeling blue etc...

I'd take my life with my bills, rent, working a regular job, a very happy marriage and only dreaming of owning a small, but nice house over all the money and superficial aquaintaces in Kate's life any day of the week. Why? Because my life is real and I am more rich in my life than Kate will ever be with all her material wealth.

IWANTNOBU said...

anyone else notice that baby mama is on many Dancing with the Stars sites to try to drum up business for her blog --- Lil Debbie may be one snack cake short of a life.

BeDoneNow said...

oh, so cute, sweatheart. Does your mommy know that you are using the computer?

I pay my cable bill (because I have a real-life master's degree and go to work 48 hours a week for a paycheck.) I also inadvertently (look it up) purchase the products that advertisers pay Discovery and all the other networks to advertise. That means I am paying your wages, Kate, so I will call you out on every stupid thing about you; YOU WILL NOT demand my money for acting like an ass in public while I sit quietly by.

As long as you keep sucking up my money, I am going to have a tremendous amount to say about what a loser you are. You take my money and I spew my judgement of you. That's the deal; get over your little self. Or better yet, get a job and stop annoying me.

Katehasnofriends said...

Kate has no friends!!!

too bad,so sad said...

My daughter tells me there is no one truth only different points of view. I read yours K's friend, now you can read mine-fair is fair.

So, yes Kate can earn a living and I have read post after post, after post here suggesting that she should do just that! I feel "earning a living means-a decent days pay for a decent days work" not riding a gravy train.
Oh, but I CAN tell her how to raise her children. You see that is my profession. I have college degrees in child development and child psychology and decades of experience. I WON'T tell her because she is what we refer to as a HC (hopeless case)
I don't sign her paycheck-TLC does and they own her and put her in terrible positions.
I don't pay her bills but my neighbors in PA paid her bills for years.
I don't put food on the table, Kraft Food Service does that-not Kate
I don't tell her what career choice she can have. I want her to have a career! Through a career one can build character and fine true self esteem. Fame because one goes to a fertility clinic is not a CAREER! Neither is writing your name on someone else's book nor is begging for love offerings a career.
I don't tell her what to wear. Someone from TLC does. I really couldn't care less.
I don't tell her how to wear her hair. Her hairdresser does-he is paid by TLC-I really don't care if she even has hair. If she donated to Locks of Love-it would get my attention, and my praise.
I don't tell her where the kids should live, but I would like to see them move to a state that has laws to protect child actors-stage actors and reality show actors.
I don't tell her she should let her husband be in HER house, because she keeps saying it is the children's house, of did she forget that?
I don't watch her tv show, and won't watch any show of hers in the future.
I WILL comment about Kate because-remember she is a STAR and our laws allow that. Even if she wasn't a celebrity I would still comment because several of my family members were in the military and fought to protect my freedom of speech-and yours too-so maybe you want to spend less time being Kate's friend and go thank a soldier! Write a card, send a package. I think you will find it more rewarding, and the real gratitude they show far outweighs anything you will get from Kate.

Brummy Girl said...

Whilst I am not an American by birth, I am by choice. It is my opinion that The British fought the Americans and the Americans won their freedom. Therefore, any American has the right to do or say whatever they want, my dear Mrs. Gosselin. Our constitution guarantees freedom of speech.

Nanny Deb said...

Dear Kate's "Friend":

Kate is free to earn whatever living she can as long as she doesn't prostitute her children to make money.

Kate is free to use that wooden spooon until her hand blisters, to scream, to degrade, to ignore, to abuse...until Social Services finally gets involved

Regarding her paychecks/bills/food, I actually do my best to avoid contributing any money at all to those who pay Kate money, so you're on target there!

If I could decide her career choice, I would make her do something that did not involve her children in any way shape or form, leaving Kate to succeed or fail purely on her own merits, not because she has a mighty uterus.

I can't affect her clothing and hair choices, but I absolutely reserve the right to mock her mercilessly, just like her kids are mocked by their peers when mommy falls out of her clothes in public.

Where they live/who lives there - Kate is free to live where she wishes and if she has custody of the house (???) she can decide who lives there as well. I would love for her to stop pretending the house is all for "the kids", because no one believes that lie for a minute. Kate wanted that McMansion for Kate. Period.

See above WRT watching her on TV.

See above WRT my right to mock.

Kate's "Friend", you might want to suggest to your beastly bestie that she stop lying. Right now. About anything at all. I speak only for myself, but brutal honesty might actually go far toward redeeming Kate's crappy public image. Here - I'll start her off...

--Actually, I really hate the dogs. They won't ever be back for good.

--Yes, I did have my breasts done. It made me feel better about myself, and I admit to being pretty vain.

--No, I don't really like being around my kids 24/7. That's why we've had help since they came home from the hospital. We currently employ X nannies, Y other household help, and my bodyguard.

--Yes, I do love the perks that my slice of fame brings. I enjoy seeing positive articles about myself. I plan to keep pursuing fame for as long as possible.

GOTCHA, Kate! said...

Anne said...
I love the "Do not comment about Kate if you don't like her."
--------------------
Yes, I zeroed in on that one, too. You see, in Kate's world, you can only comment about her if you like her...no constructive criticism allowed or accepted. Telling Kate she is not perfect simply does not compute.

SoSillyNotEvenWorthMyComment said...

Tami, "How did it get to be her house anyway? Jon was there earning money all along."
-------------------------------

I could swear I've heard one or both parents say that the house is for the kids. But, then, I also heard her saying something akin to, "Mine, all mine." (With a sweep of her hand indicating the amount of acreage outside the window.) In my mind, you've got ten Gosselins who were on TV earning a paycheck. That's eight against two. Sorry, Kate; kids rule. It's more their house than yours.

pinkdiamond611 said...

Khate's friend should take some of her own advice. Do NOT read this blog, if you don't like it. :-))))) Also, the comment that it is Khate's house, makes me believe that the friend is mine all mine Katie Irene.

Pinky said...

I wonder if this is the person who has been defending her on the dicussion part on Amazon dot com under her new book listing

Misty pig said...

Sorry, but when someone puts themselves in the public eye (and boy did she ever),they become fair game.

Also does Kate know that you are her friend?

Geez, we're In 2nd grade again said...

To the friend...all together now, hands on hips and pouty faces forward, "Hey, Kate! You're not the boss of us!!!"

oh sweetie said...

I know this "friend of Kate" means well, but newsflash: Kate WANTS to talked about good or bad.

She WANTS to be the topic of all the entertainment shows, gossip colums.. if not, well then she's just a mom of unruly kids...

Publicity breeds more publicity.

Babsie said...

Babsie

We all know that nothing said here will effect Kate's behavior but lets get real here. We do pay Kate's salary as long as she is on Cable. So I indeed can literally put my 2 cents any where I please, thank you very much.

If Kate didn't want her hair styles commented on she wouldn't put her mug in People's Magazine.

As for her career choice, indeed the public plays a huge role in her working in the genre. In the end it is always up to us.

If Kate is concerned about people making comments about her then all she needs to do is stop doing interviews. Kate can't have it both ways. That's life.

If you use your children to support your lifestyle, lie in order to ellicit love offerings and in general lie pretty much about every thing in your life, and expect to get paid to parent your own children, you ought to get use to people saying unpleasant comments.

CANDOTOO said...

But we:
CAN send her gift cards/cash
CAN buy her books
CAN buy the dvds
CAN vote for her on DWTS

boobear said...

If only the fans knew that Kate is to big a star to even bother about them.
Remember they are ridiculous.

BerksPa said...

The multiple personalities seem to be matching the hairstyle changes...

tallblonde said...

"Kate's Friend" - I think I saw that job listed on Craig's List...no benefits though.... ;-)

ct_mom_of_2 said...

I recently cancelled cable, so (thankfully) not one dime of mine goes to TLC or the Gosselin "parents."

Kate's "friend" is way off-base. It's called freedom of speech. When you signed yourself & your family up to be on a network TV show, you gave up a lot of privacy. Think about it....

chronicworld said...

This is about the eight children who are neglected and unloved by Kate Gosselin. She gambled with their lives and won. She got her money's worth out of them. They aren't little moneymakers anymore, and they are cramping her style.
We all see it, Friend of Kate. We are here to bear witness, so those eight children will know they were cared about and fought for by people all over the country.

Miss said...

Dear Kate's friend,
Since you are so very cranky your energy would be better spent donating your services (for free) doing some house work or babysitting for your BBF. Then she would most likely throw you to the wind.

Pony said...

Huh said... "Don't the children sign Kate's paychecks?"

I think they just earn them.
;-)

Lillie Mae Acres said...

NO I cannot "tell" Kate anything because I don't personally know her. I can post my opinion all I want though so here it is. NO decent mom that goes around claiming to put her kids first is going to spend over 7 hours at the salon getting her hair done and redone just so she can spend days away from them while making a fool of herself on a tv show. Get a nursing job, live in a modest home and you and Jon support your kids in a respectable way, giving them a private life that they deserve! No real and decent mom that I personally know would want to spend so much time away from her children. I made plenty of scrifices just so my child would not have to go to daycare. Surely Kate can make a few sacrifices like working close to home and not traveling for a living. Divorced parents all over the place are living normal private lives. It's called putting the children first.

The Big Wooden Spoon said...

John Doe said...
yay for Kate's friend!!
*******

She has one?

A real friend would stage a confrontation, and would tell her straight up that she's making as a** of herself.

JMO

ATL housewife said...

GoPoshGo took my sentiments exactly, "Kate has a friend?" I don't believe it. (S)he has alienated HER own family. Her only friends are her paid help.

The Big Wooden Spoon said...

KatesDancingFlintstoneFeet said...
C'mon!!!
We all know Kate HAS NO FRIENDS!
HI KATE! The "may NOT's" gave you away
****
I don't know...
it didn't say "under penalty of severeness"!

JaxsMom said...

I think if you were truly Kate's friend, then you would see how television and the pursuit of fame has not only destroyed her marriage, but is also destroying her children.

I think if you were truly Kate's friend, then you would encourage Kate to seek out therapy so that she can learn to deal with her narcissism and rage issues--so that she can be a better mother and friend.

I think if you were truly Kate's friend, you would remind her that Jon is the man she chose to have children with twice--and encourage her to respect the role he needs to play in her kids' life.

I think if you were truly Kate's friend, you would encourage her to be frugal and to work towards a long-term career that is likely to be successful--rather than helping her be the flavor of the moment and watching her be exploited by TLC.

I think if you were truly Kate's friend, you wouldn't bother with sites like this. Why would you care what a bunch of strangers think about your friend? It doesn't make sense.

Momof2 said...

I read the latest People mag today in the waiting room of the dentist...I read the article on Fake...she and TLC totally read this blog.

Loon Watcher said...

My response to "Kate G's Friend":

You HAVE THE RIGHT to be an egotistical moron.
You CANNOT or WILL NOT EVER develop any reason or morals.
You DO NOT have the guts to sign your posts.
You DO NOT own this website.
You CANNOT own the world.
You CANNOT tell other people what to say or believe.
You CANNOT keep letting the media do your thinking for you.
You CANNOT keep falling for TLC propaganda.
You CANNOT EVER be a decent human being if you continue to use Kate Gosselin as your role model.
DO NOT idolize media creations.
DO NOT troll websites looking to cause trouble; instead, get a life!

Jane in California said...

ROFL!! Well, I guess we've been told!

First of all, this is clearly someone trying to punk us, as we all know that Kate has NO FRIENDS.

Second, the person who wrote it is clearly not working with a full deck, as they don't understand the basics of television watching.

Kate, are we getting under your skin at last? awwwww, don't go away mad -- just go away!

diamondfire42 said...

That post is very humorous! Let's address it point by point.

Yes, Kate has the right to earn a living, just like the rest of us.

I beg to differ on the next one. I am currently typing and no one seems to be stopping me and I am being willful, so I CAN and WILL tell her how to raise her children.

Yes, she is correct. I do not sign her paychecks. Does she know who actually signs the checks?

I do not physically pay her bills, but the money that goes to the advertisers comes from people like me.

Yes, we see Kate sometimes physically put the food on the table. We cannot verify who actually prepared it.

We cannot decide her career choice. If we did, she wouldn't be on TV.

I can tell her what to wear and how to do her hair so she looks well and appropriate. She has the choice not to listen.

Again, with the willfulness, I can tell Kate whatever I want. She has the choice not to listen or comment if she doesn't like it.

I don't watch her on TV.

The last comment is hard, because it's like a train wreck or car accident, you see the disaster, can't turn away, but pray that everyone will come out alright. Hang on kids, it's going to be a bumpy ride.

kate's an idiot said...

Kate, I'd stop reading about you or watching you on tv if you'd only go away, you dim bulb.

Halo24 said...

BabyMomma's ramblings?? That chick needs to chill out.

Mykie said...

I seriously doubt Kate has a friend.

I wonder if Kate really has a new TLC show in the works. Would TLC release her to do that ghastly d-list celebrity dance show if it had its own show with her in the works? Doubt it.

Methinks TLC is having trouble coming up with a concept. Can do Kate can't really do anything.

Going, going.....soon to be gone. Maybe not soon enough though.

Sam said...

To Kate G., Babymama (aka woman who had baby to collect child support) or TLC intern who wrote this drivel:

Here's a lesson for you in Karma, you see, no matter what religion you believe in or no religion, stuff in life comes around in full circle. All that lying, cheating and self entitlement will eventually catch up with you. And if you don't want the public to judge you, stay off the covers of gossip rags.

God Bless the little children said...

Yes we can, and yes we do.

I do agree though, that people who do not like Cat-e...should not watch her. Please people tune out. Don't watch and don't click on her articles...

God save the children said...

Tami, don't forget that it was Jon's inheritance that gave them money to live on until the tv gig came along anyway.

Kate was nothing without Jon. She went nowhere without Jon.

I just don't understand that these two dolts do not seem to understand that the reason their show did so well, was because of their marriage! They were a cute couple...trying to survive this unusual situation with faith and love. The anger was understandable; but we thought they truly loved each other more than anything else.

And that is what people like: a love story. A happy ending. People who overcome hardship.

It isn't seeing people become hard and selfish; as those two have.

They are NOT famous; they are INFAMOUS.

shelly_bear767 said...

I see Khate was at a speaking event Saturday. Was viewing the pics from Radar online. Could her smile be any faker? She stated a few months ago that she spends ALL her costody days with her children?!?! How is that possible when she's NEVER home? And where did you guys read that the dogs were going back to the compound? I don't buy any of the rags and get most of my updates here. Surely, her 15 minutes of shame will be over soon and she can raise her own children. Kate and TLC are not going down without a fight. At least that's what it seems to me.

silimom said...

People, we have been baited and many have reacted, which only serves to encourage Baby Mama in her obsessive fandom and to feed her narcissism.

BM, I suggest you follow the example of your idol, Kate and just be a "high road taker". Oh and question for you - if you call a tail a leg, how many legs does a dog have?

grannyoftwo said...

You DO NOT sign her paychecks.


Okay...I do not normally get angry about things...but this STUPID statement made me angry...because whomever wrote it is clearly off their rocker... in the 1st place anyone that is on tv is paid by that said tv station which in fact brings in monies from the sponsors whom the PUBLIC supports. So in fact WE the PEOPLE are supporting KATE and her brood(as it always has been and always will be from day one, until she gets out of the public eye and gets a real job and supports them herself) so in fact we do have a right to say anything we choose to say about Kate. If she doesn't want the public around get out of the public EYE! Any dimwit can see that, but of course she is not just any dimwit. She is a greedy dimwit that thinks she is above all of it. How much did TLC/we pay you to write your little friend note thingy?

grannyoftwo said...

A REAL friend would do an intervention for Kate....

IDModo said...

"Kate's friend" is right. We CANNOT do any of those things.If we could, the kids would be taken care of by a loving mother,not a brazen fame ho. They would live a happy normal life .They would not be in fear of the wooden spoon or their mother's vicious tongue.Their mother would dress appropriately and go to work like the rest of us. She would allow the children to have a loving and stress-free relationship with their father.They would not be emberrassed by her antics in the public eye.
If "Kate's Friend" meant that we MAY not do those things, she was terribly wrong. We may and will continue to have our say.
Kate, if you posted that, remember the difference between Can and May, and the difference between advice and ultimatums.Or maybe this was never pointed out to you during your sketchy educational experiences....

Duckman said...

If there were more rhyming in it, this would look like an early draft of "Green Eggs and Ham" for the pathologically petulant.

HBailey said...

Narcissists are not capable of having friends. I've said it 1,000 times...people are not human to someone like Kate....they are objects to get them what they want. This includes her own children.

However, narcissists ARE capable of having paid assistants and publicists from TLC.

KatesDancingFlintstoneFeet said...

The Big Wooden Spoon said...
A real friend would stage a confrontation, and would tell her straight up that she's making as a** of herself.
______________

True....that is why she HAS NO FRIENDS. She is a true narcissist. She is always alone, except for paid TLC employees, Steve, hair-guy Ted, TLC's paparazzi, etc. What a sad, sad life.

PLUS, she has failed miserably as a Mom, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, etc.

NoUse4Kate said...

Janet said...

"Why don't you worry about the children at risk instead of Kate's right to be a negligent mother?"



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I totally agree. K8's stupidity and antics is just fodder and fun to comment about. She's a fame whore, pure and simple. She puts herself out there to be poked at. Suck it up sweetie. If you think GWOP is bad check out TMZ where every other word about you is an expletive.

The bottom line for me and many others here, is the children. Not many seem to give a damn about them and how her behavior, her lack of mothering skills, her total disregard for their rights is effecting them.

rural mom said...

Dear Kate, You are a terrible mother and a repugnant human being. Your children need you. How dare you use them to justify your need for a mansion and all the perks that come with being notorious for using your children to garner attention. I know your PR team thinks it makes you look driven saying you are awake 20 hours out of 24 but it just proves how bonkers you really are, and how incapable you are of setting good example for your children. Read some books, Kate. There has never been an star,executive or millionaire who said in his/her biography, "gee,when I look back on how much I missed seeing my kids grow up and being there when they needed me, I am so glad I chose money and fame over them". I pity your children because I know you are the type who reminds them daily mommy doesn't get to eat, sleep or spend any part of their day with them because she has to earn the money to keep the masnsion over their head. You could win DWTS, Kate, and that wouldn't make up for all the hours you spent away from them. They are your priority. You are not entitled to abandon and abuse them simply because they came out of your womb. And that is what I think every single time I see your fake tanned teeth whitened ugly face on the cover of magazines.

1momski said...

The pictures on ROL of Kate at the women's conference show Kate in a very dowdy dress. She looks heavy, which is hard to believe given the dancing she is doing.The extensions are back and look worse then ever. Mangled straw, her hair looks so damaged.

Midnight Serenade said...

I would love to do an ethnographic study of Kate's fan base, beginning with "Kate's Friend." She/he most likely doesn't know what that is, but simply put, it's a qualitative method used in collecting data on human societies/cultures, or groups of people. This involves demography. In reading the comments on ROL, it appears that most of them have perhaps a junior high school education at best. It would be interesting to know to what socioeconomic group these people belong. They admire her and adore her a role model, and then consider themselves so important that they impose their beliefs on others, dictating what one may or may not say. The intelligence clearly isn't there, but to what extent does the lack of "smarts" make them rabid fans, delusional enough in their thinking to believe that they really are her "friends?"

While the Kate topic is hot, this would be a great study for someone who needs a college/post grad research project in sociology!

Katie711 said...

Are you kidding me? This " Khate's Friend" who do you think you are kidding? You are one of two people.. You are either KHATEZILLA herself or some crazy freak from ROL who has NOTHING better to do then defend this HORRIBLE MOTHER. Its called freedom of speech ( look it up sometime while your waiting to be seen in your plastic surgeon's office. This goes right along with Zilla being a lair, narcissist, self centered wannabe.
They say the TRUTH HURTS.. so that is why you dont like these posts. We all post the truth over here as opposed to the 10 people who try to defend your actions on other sites. NICE TRY. You just proved what a loser you really are by submitting your post..

bettyboop said...

I do wish DWTS was not helping to continue this abuser of fertility drugs to stay in the public eye. I won't be watching but I hope she is worst then that Trista woman and laughed off the show post haste.

Midnight Serenade said...

"The extensions are back and look worse then ever. Mangled straw, her hair looks so damaged."

If she just had her hair done, then why does she have black roots? Is this the current "look?"

Gimme Gimme said...

Lesson #999-for "friends" of infamous people.

The only bad publicity is no publicity.

The price of fame/infamy.

Kate's newfound friend should be thanking us and all the many, many others on all manner of different sites who feel the same.

If we people couldn't talk about her indiscretions then what else?

Nothing, nada, nyet.

Kris said...

Thank you. I needed a laugh on this gloomy rainy day :-)

PS: In my dictionary the definition of "friend" doesn't include acquaintances that are paid for..

Ohio Buckeye said...

Duckman said, "If there were more rhyming in it, this would look like an early draft of "Green Eggs and Ham" for the pathologically petulant."

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Excellent point, excellently said!

Can't See Sheep said...

Just because you photoshopped yourself & your kids into a pic with kate does not mean you are friends. If we go by that logic, then I could be George Clooney's next girlfriend with some creative photoshopping. Let me guess you have whole conversations made up in your head about what you & kate have talked about, things you've laughed over, trips to the mall you've taken & so on. Seek help immediately!

silimom said...

Babymama,

Yes, other people in the entertainment industry leave their children with nannies to work.

The reason I, and I believe other people, complain about Kate is that these other "stars" didn't get in a reality show and present themselves as SuperMom, as the ideal of what all mother's should be. They don't sit in interviews and first thing tell the world how everything they do is for their kids and write books to make sure their children and the world know what a sacrifice it is to raise them. They don't spin it as "Poor me! Can't a mom just have fun?" when all they've done for the past three years is go on ad nauseum about how they're children will fall apart if she's not there to care for them.

I have said before, I have no issue with either parent pursuing a job in entertainment as long as they stand on their own merits and keep their children out of it. That means going into an interview and spending 98% of the time talking about something other than your kids. That means not using your children as an excuse when things don't work out. If you succeed or fail, you take the responsibilty. It also means that one of the prices you pay for fame is that people will scrutinize your words and your actions. Kate has claimed to understand this - not to like it but to accept it's part of the territory. Apparently, you don't, hence your "You WILL NOT" list.

Lauren said...

Wow, seriously, there is so much wrong with that little message from "Kate's friend" that I don't know where to start.

I have a very strong feeling that if Kate saw any of her sheeple fans she would either be rude to them or run away in fright.

Charlie Rose said...

So "friend or perhaps Sister" do you really believe Kate would be famous IF she didn't have 2 sets of multiples? What exactly IS her talent? Because for the life of me, I still can't figure that one out!

Denise said...

Someone seems to be claiming credit for the OP.
Krista said...

Apparently people are thinking I'm BabyMama on a trolling blog so alas, I am here to sadly show I am not. I agree its been a slow Gosselin day. Fans like myself are waiting for the big show day. I loved seeing the photos from the Womans Expo, but her hair looks exactly the same as before! Is it me? Why would she take all that hair out, spending hours then putting it back in the same? I agree I liked the bob so much better!

I hope they are practicing and having a blast. Me gets the feeling after yesterdays big Expo Kate will not be interested in hard core stretches! HaHa

Brummygirl said...

This *friend* of Kate's is only a friend in her own mind. We all suspect who it is, because Kate does not physically have any friends only paid help.
A friend is someone you can confide in, is there to tell you the truth whether you want it or not for your own good.
A real friend would have told her long ago that she was treading the wrong path.
A *plastic* friend is someone who claims to be close to you, but has never met you.
I find idolatry very strange especially in the same sex.
I address this *friend* on one of her statements, if you do not like to read what is said on here..DO NOT READ!!
Much worse is said about Kate on other sites, here you have a group of people who actually care what happens to the children and who can converse intelligently.
We confront the truth which is laid before our eyes via t.v. and other media and also out of the mouth of Kate herself.
If she could successfully tally up all the stories she has told maybe she would have some validation, but she buries herself in all the lies.
I have asked before, what drives the driven? In this case it is fame, it is money and in a pitiful way it is to be admired. No one admires a mother who cares more for herself than the children she prayed God for.
So *friend*, when you can come in and tell us something constructive and admirable about Kate, you are wasting our time and your energy.

Anonymous said...

Kate's Friend (hahahahaha, so funny) should move to China. You're allowed to tell people what not to write there.

kate is a cocky bitch said...

Kate, you really shouldn't drink before you get on your computer!!!

SAHM said...

Of course the dogs are coming back but only for filming. TLC has to come up w/ new episodes for Kate's new show.

How disgusting!!!

Protect8 said...

And if I break your rules do I get hit with the wooden spoon, smacked on bare flesh, my mouth hit or another severist punishment?

Pattypanda said...

Rural Mom - remember Kate can't read. She spent supposedly 30 weeks on bed rest and never read one book. She must have spent her days and nights plotting hos to defraud the state of PA and the local churches.

KatesDancingHooves said...

Dear Kate, (yes, I believe this post is from Kate herself) ...
All one has to do now to see the REAL YOU, the bad Mom/bad wife/horrible person, is at 6am every weekday, turn on TLC, and you can watch your old reruns of J&K+8. Friday they showed you at Sesame Place in Langhorn PA & you acted horribly..and THAT show was a mild one!!! Yep, that's the REAL Kate. Stop trying to pretend to now be Ms. Nice Person/Good Mom, working hard to provide for your kids. It's not working. People STILL don't like you and want you to GO AWAY.

WE'VE GOTTEN TO SEE THE REAL YOU BY WATCHING YOUR *REALITY* SHOW...REALITY

PA Mom of 2 said...

Kate has abandoned her children. Kate avoids being at home with them. It is obvious. She is a BAD MOM. KATE wants fame and stardom...it has nothing to do with providing for her kids.

Get a REAL job. Downsize, and try to act like a human being!

KatesDancingFlintstoneFeet said...

I'm a stay-at-home-Mom and my son is 17, but I STILL make sure I'm near the front door when he gets off his bus JUST so I can hear about his day! I've done this with BOTH my kids!

Kate, you just don't get it:
You HAVE failed as a Mother.
You HAVE failed as a wife.
You just don't have any Mom genes.

AMD said...

"You CANNOT decide her career choice....
DO NOT watch Kate on TV if you don’t like her.
DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her."
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Perhaps we can decide her "career" choice by NOT watching her on TV or reading or commenting about Kate.
No audience = no TV career.
I was under the impression, however, that her career was, in her words being ..."a mother first". It's not the impression she's giving.

SeriouslySerious said...

Kate HAS THE RIGHT to earn a living.
...such as nursing...right? Oh snap, that's right she said can't earn enough if she goes back to nursing to feed her kids, etc...blah-blah-blah...Hmmm...please, it can be done, you can't live without the fame. It is all about you and not the kids.

You CANNOT or WILL NOT EVER tell her how to raise her children.
You DO NOT sign her paychecks.
You DO NOT pay her bills.
You DO NOT put food on her table.
You CANNOT decide her career choice.
You CANNOT tell Kate what she should wear.
You CANNOT decide how she styles her hair.
You CANNOT decide where Kate and her children will live.
You CANNOT EVER tell Kate to let her irresponsible ex-husband, Jon, to stay in HER house when she is away for whatever reason.
DO NOT watch Kate on TV if you don’t like her.
DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her.

Only a person with a borderline personality disorder like you have would feel compelled to write this. We know it is you, K8. Man, this is EXACTLY how you talked to Jon (and sadly, probably your kids). Thanks for (once again) proving that you are an angry, unhappy, egotistical control freak. You need help.Oh wait, I can't write that...can I? I am ahead of you and I will add to your list.
Do NOT tell K8 she needs help.
DO NOT tell K8 she has a psychological disorder.
DO NOT tell K8 she is angry.
DO NOT tell K8 she is a control freak.
DO NOT tell K8 she is egotistical.

chronicworld said...

One more thing, Kate's Friend. Please tell Kate that I never wanted to be involved in her life. I started watching a reality show about a what I thought was a lovely young couple with eight beautiful children, doing the best they could to make a good life.
When Joel had the flu and Kate left him on the laundry room floor, I wanted to pick him up and hold him the way he needed and deserved to be held. Fortunately, Jon came home and took care of him.
This was when I knew something was wrong with Mommy.
I kept watching to see what she would do next.
Well, all of us here know.
Through Kate's mistreatment of her children, our maternal instincts were stimulated, I think. Mothers do not sit idly by and watch children be abused.
We don't want to care so much about Kate's children, but somebody has to.

AnotherLisa said...

Tell Kate's fiend to read what Johnny Weir (yes, the ice skater) says about Kate. His relative are neighbors of Kate and have nothing nice to say about her.

Go Johnny!!!

Savannah said...

She thoroughly disgusts me!! I've personally been so busy lately that it's all I can do to check in on GWOP every so often.

http://tvwatch.people.com/2010/03/11/kate-gosselin-is-determined-to-win-dancing-with-the-stars/

They're gonna be watching to see if the ratings sky-rocket when she appears. Please, please, please- I hope not. I think she needs to go back to Nursing. There is a shortage of qualified Nurses in Hospital nationwide. But I guess she'll keep riding her 15 minutes until they 'dis her. However, she has well inflated her living expenses, big house, new cars, etc...she needs to grab a gig or two. I just can't stand the lady. the witchy cackle, self-righteous attitude and so on. Still, I thought she wanted to be able to be a more "hands-on" Mom? What greedy phoney self serving b****!!

LisaNH said...

1momski said...
The pictures on ROL of Kate at the women's conference show Kate in a very dowdy dress. She looks heavy, which is hard to believe given the dancing she is doing.The extensions are back and look worse then ever. Mangled straw, her hair looks so damaged
________________________________

Maybe the Women's conference told Kate that it would be detrimental to her and to the conference if she showed up with her new, paid for by her children's college funds, ta tas hanging out of her dress like the way she dressed all last summer and most of this past winter?

Just saying.........:-)

Emily the Great and Terrible said...

Obviously we CAN tell her how to style her hair... she changes it according to our opinion. Speaking of, why does she look always like she has a bad home job after soending thousands?

abbie said...

Wow K8 has a friend? Wonder if she is on the payroll too? Youd'e almost have to be, or be the type of person who gravitates towards very damaged people in hopes of fixing them. A real friend would tell her the hair is ridiculous and to have that rats nest removed. It looks worse now than it did when she was a possumhead. She has "high maintenance" written all over her so how many hours a day does she actually spend with her own kids or does she drag all 8 along to the spa and hair salon and shopping and nail appointments?
No man on this earth that's sane would ever take her and 8 kids on, especially with all the notiariety surrounding her pathetic life. What man would sign on for that? So I hope your lonliness is worth the money and what you perceive as "fame". Puxatawney Pete the groundhog also enjoys fame in Pennsylvania, he might be your stiffest competetition. At least he has the common sense to come out, see the throngs of idiots, and goes back in. Wish you would do the same.

Dorothy Grimes said...

Dorothy here:excerpt from article re: Expo for women.
Noel Ullery, another IUSB student, said "an event like this should empower women. ... And the fact that they invited Kate Gosselin (to be keynote speaker) over some of the amazing women in this community, speaks for the event."

SeriouslySerious said...

I think Katie Irene woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Did we hit a nerve? Feel threatened?
Amazing how you can now get up at the crack of dawn to dance but slept in when you were home with the kids...Oh, that's right, it's your job...I thought being a mom was too.

Amazing that you geared the entire post about you. Speaks volumes. Well, I guess not, since you are the focus (once again) and not the kids. The leopard doesn't change its spots...Speaking of leopards, I noticed how you addressed us...it is the same way you talked to Jon on the show (and sadly, probably how you talk to your kids).

I would like to add to your advice list:

DO NOT call me crazy.

DO NOT tell me I need help.

DO NOT tell me I am an egocentric.

DO NOT call me a control freak.

Do NOT tell me I have anger issues.

DO NOT tell me to go back to nursing.

DO NOT tell me to stay out of the spot light.

Do NOT call me a fame whore.

SeriouslySerious said...

Also, DO NOT vote for me on DWTS!!

PA Woman said...

Do I agree with everything Kate does? No

Do I agree with everything said here? No

However, Kate has chosen to live her life in the public eye. It happened as soon as she stepped in front of the camera. She opened up her life to critique at the same time as she became a public figure; and, unfortunately she also openned up the life of her 8 children.

We live in the USA. We all have the right to express our opinions.

Geri said...

Can't you just see Kate scribbling all these "can nots" down on postit notes and pasting them on the GWOP website? LOL

CarolS461 said...

Have any of you seen the picture comparisons on the Pressi site?

Check out the pictures/comments on the first two links where it says "Post Pictures Here" and "Post Articles Here."

http://preesi.lefora.com/forum/category/my-case-against-kate-gosselin/

She's side-by-side with Kendra Wilkinson, Cruella deVille, The Grinch. Jon is paired with Maddox Jolie-Pitt.

I also like the one that shows all the different hairstyles Kate has had in the last 6 years - what she was and what she is today.

BeDoneNow said...

MIDNIGHT SERENADE said:
...While the Kate topic is hot, this would be a great study for someone who needs a college/post grad research project in sociology!
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
That's what I am doing. Sort of. In my work I deal with families at end-of-life and I am lecturing in in-services about Kate and her destruction of her eight young children. This is to demonstrate some of the many issues that might prevent adult children from attending their parent at end of life; and also not even attending the death bed. No matter how sweetly someone may be smiling at hired help at the end of their life, or insisting "I did everything for my children, er KIDS", we have no right to judge why adult children will not attend their parents - we never know what has gone on all those years. In the case study of the Gosselin family, we do indeed know and no one will question why mama Kate spends her final years alone.

Yes, I use her name and use film of the physical and emotional neglect of her children to show what people grow up with and can never forgive, even at a death bed.

Vanessa said...

Does Khate ever stop to think WHY AM I SOOO DESPISED?
I don't know, I think if it were me, I'd be crying in my pillow every night thinking "What have I done, what can I do to change things?"
She compares herself to Angelina? Does Angelina get hate mail/emails, protesters? Maybe she does, I don't know...

BeDoneNow said...

We DO NOT hit grown men while cackeling!
We DO NOT hit toddlers while hung-over and on our pink phone.
We DO NOT lift a toddlers clothes to expose them and to cause more pain while hitting.
We DO NOT chomp cud -er gum-on TV!
We DO NOT lay sick toddlers on linoleum floors!
We DO NOT have tantrums at a toddler for dribbling ice cream!
We DO NOT hit toddlers with wooden spoons!
We DO NOT take away birthday cake from toddlers while others have theirs!
We DO NOT yank arms out of sockets just to show toddlers we are annoyed by their very exsistence.
We DO NOT call our own children names to a TV camera.
We DO NOT ridicule children's fathers, grandparents, etc for them and all the world to hear.
We DO NOT wretch in disgust because toddlers have interrupted our salad and self-interview.
We DO NOT show everyone how powerful we are by throwing someone elses personal belongings down a flight of stairs. In disgust.
We DO NOT lie lie lie. No matter how much we try to believe our very special self.Or how fun it is!
We DO NOT flaunt our store bought boobies outside of the bedroom.
We DO NOT feel self entitled and demand attention, adoration and money, all because we gave birth twice.
And, we DO NOT EVER try impede this gentle writer from laughing at you throughout my loving happy and self fullfilled day of family friends and helping others.

rural mom said...

Dear Friend, tell Kate to quit generating publicity off her kids and dogs and we'll stop commenting on the tacky weave also being used to generate publicity.

katejumpsshark said...

Dear Kate, err..Kate's friend,

You have no right how to tell single or divorced mothers how to raise their children when you do such a crappy job of it yourself. Do not compare yourself to all the hardworking parents that have had to downsize and make do after a divorce. We think of our children first, sacrifice for them, run the children to sports/extracurricular activities for their self-esteem, not photo ops for a reality show or because we are fame whores. We buy our children milk and sure, we complain about the price..but it comes before fake tans, nails, hair, trips to Nobu or Butter's, spas. We single or divorced parents, probably married ones too do not carry wooden spoons around in the pocket of our vehicle to threaten or beat our kids.
How silly of us that we thought we could buy a subscription to "People" magazine or watch the news without seeing you whine for money, knowing you scammed churches for money.
Ack! Kate makes me sick just thinking about her and her narcissistic ways, I feel so bad for those children and now the poor dogs she is bringing back for PR stunts.
Whatever tabloid called her out first was right, Kate Gosselin is a "MONSTER MOM". REAL mothers do not punish their children by having their children stay constantly with nannies when their father could do it. Stop comparing yourself to Brad and Angelina, they are by the far better parents and it only makes you look even more the foolish, name-dropping, greedy fame-whore.

Go Away Kate! said...

Bad Mom! Bad Mom!

bleeting sheeple said...

We DO NOT want to see your ugly mug on TV or the Tabloids any more........

Go home and raise your kids Kate. After all didn't you beg a Dr. for fertility drugs to get them in the first place???

Get Ready to Vote for Anyone Else! said...

This is sooo funny! Dear paid friend, if you think the GWOP site and criticism is bad, you just have no idea of what is out there in cyberspace. Kate will be judged by posters on fan sites that ENCOURAGE extreme sarcasm and blistering criticism. She will be judged on the size of her breasts and the number of wrinkles or evidence of botox that can be seen on high-def TV! Stay on GWOP for the nice comments. Then again, if she would be so horrendously bad and entertaining at the same time, there is a chance a certain website that supports bad but entertaining contestants on certain shows might support her. I do think that Kate will ultimately be ordinary compared to the real talented performers on the show. And ordinary equals BORING. Sorry, Paid Friend!

thunderbird said...

Kate has a friend? Oh, it's KATE HERSELF!!! My bad, for a second there I thought she really might have a friend, newly bought for her by TLC...

Brummygirl said...

PLEASE NOTE!!
Someone has posted under my name on here. I did NOT make the post regarding the American and British.

Tami said...

Someone seems to be claiming credit for the OP.
Krista said...

Apparently people are thinking I'm BabyMama on a trolling blog so alas, I am here to sadly show I am not. I agree its been a slow Gosselin day. Fans like myself are waiting for the big show day. I loved seeing the photos from the Womans Expo, but her hair looks exactly the same as before! Is it me? Why would she take all that hair out, spending hours then putting it back in the same? I agree I liked the bob so much better!

I hope they are practicing and having a blast. Me gets the feeling after yesterdays big Expo Kate will not be interested in hard core stretches! HaHa

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If this is from a friend of hers, why would she say she hopes they are practicing? A friend would know that. And why would you sadly say you are not Babymama? I would think people would be happy not to be her!

Two clueless idiots said...

Honestly, I hate to even comment, because I don't want to feed the ego of Kate's friend, but I just can't stop laughing at the absurdity of this rant! I felt like I was having a seventh-grade flashback when I read this list of ignorance and excessive capitalization. (No offense to seventh graders..I realize most are more mature than the original post's author.) I swear, I was giggling like I do when I read my 9-year-old daughter's notes to and from her friends (with her permission). The HIGH DRAMA is so amusing. The ABSOLUTES are so final.

Still giggling.

Darcy said...

I think you can condense that entire rant down to this:

YOU CAN'T TELL KATE ANYTHING!

Newsflash, Kate's "friend" - we already knew that about her.

poohbear said...

But we CAN VOTE FOR KATE in DWTS.. right??

Purple said...

Would Kate even acknowledge this "friends" presence?

mcqueen said...

This friends post reminds me why Katie needs Stevie the body guard

fidosmommy said...

Kate could not have written "the rant" herself.

There are not nearly enough exclamation points.

!!!!!!!!!!!!

SharnaPax said...

#12 "DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her."

Um... come and make me. I double-dog dare ya! No, I break protocol, and I triple-dog dare ya!

What sort of cretin would post such a threat? I guess the Internet Kate Police are on our trail! Be askeered! Hide, everyone!

Holy ****. What a total idiot.

Snickers40 said...

Kate who? I know, not there yet but praying for the day.

Kate has a friend? LOL! That was pretty good. Kudos!

SeriouslySerious said...

This just in...

According to Page Six, mother of eight, Kate Gosselin, is being a total diva on the set of Dancing With The Stars.

Reportedly, her behavior caused Johnny Weir to pull out of the show because he didn’t want to work alongside her.

A DWTS source said, “Kate doesn’t want anything to do with other contestants…While there’s a lot of camaraderie among the crew and other stars including Pamela Anderson, Kate has set herself apart…She wants to be queen bee.”

Another source said, “She’s been rehearsing in Pennsylvania to be near her kids. For the short time she was in L.A., she and the cast got along great.”

The show makes its tenth season debut on March 22, 2010. Who will you be rooting for?


Oh, I love KARMA!!!! Patience, dear friends, patience and it will all come out in the wash.

I would love to hear K8's spin on this one.

I love that she is rehearsing in PA to be near her kids. Happy Monday everyone!!! That was a good one.

my9cats said...

SharnaPax said...
#12 "DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her."

Um... come and make me. I double-dog dare ya! No, I break protocol, and I triple-dog dare ya!

What sort of cretin would post such a threat? I guess the Internet Kate Police are on our trail! Be askeered! Hide, everyone!

Holy ****. What a total idiot.

3/14/2010 10:54 PM

This sounds like something KON put on their website a long time ago about not to believe anything about them unless it was on their website. Yeah right. Boy did that send up red flags. Jerks.

Sharon said...

BeDoneNow - your list was fantastic!!! I would like to add the following:

WE DO NOT make fun of toddlers who have to wear glasses.

WE DO NOT make fun of toddlers and say when they grow up and marry, their wife will fine they will be clueless.

and my personal favorite:

WE NO NOT take pictures of a toddlers first bowel movement in the potty chair.

I'm sure there were inklings beforehand, but that is the moment I released Kate truly was a monster.

down with kate said...

is it just me or did anyone think of the "leave britney spears alone!" video when they read this post??? just sayin...

Vanessa said...

Yes, the dogs are coming back so TLC can portray Kate as the hero when they resume filming. ROL tries to subltly imply that it was Jon who decided the dogs should go. They only quote him, not once do they print how SHE felt about and treated those dogs, it's all on film for pete's sake!
But then again, her repulsive behaviour is ALL on film and they have yet to quote or bring up a moment from the show that portrays her in a negative fashion.

kitnkaboodle said...

Um--YOU obviously CAN NOT! learn how to type w/o caps ,either.

kitnkaboodle said...

Too bad this directive didn't come with accompanying video or we could've been treated to Khate CLAPPING HER HANDS AT US.
Bwahhhhh haaaa haaaa

I'M SO SCARED OF YOUR SEVERENESS KATE

KatesDancingFlintstoneFeet said...

Kate,
In an interview for DWTS, you were quoted as saying (about winning)
"I will kill this, it's what I do"

You are right, It IS what you do!
Here are some examples:

You KILLED your relationship with your parents
You KILLED your relationship with your siblings
You KILLED your MARRIAGE
You KILLED your relationships with your friends
You KILLED any chances that your children have a normal life

....Oh, I could go on & on

NT said...

The NY Post has an article about Kate being hateful to the crew of DWTS and being cold to the other cast members. She is not friendly with anyone. And the Baltimore Sun has an article about how he thinks that Kate will have some kind of injury and not dance on the show at all. He thinks all she wants is the exposure before hand and she would not dare let herself be embarassed in front of a few million people. We will have to wait and see.

Charles said...

Whew! Boy oh boy, Kate G's "friend" has me shaking in my boots! (wink wink)

TandLMommy28 said...

I can comment on Kate, watch her on TV even though I don't like her (although I don't because she nauseates me), talk about how horrible I think she is and make fun of her, and pray for her poor children who are neglected to a disgusting degree. I can. And you can't stop me. You have as much right to like Kate as I do to not like her. And Kate doesn't have any friends that aren't on her payroll so either you are being paid to say that or you are really just a crazed fan who wishes you were her friend. Or worse, you are Kate herself. In which case, you are more pathetic than I ever thought.

N.E. Psychologist said...

@ Vanessa: it's all on film for pete's sake!
************
Yes, and TLC OWNS all that film. You can bet they are doing ALOT of editing for the reruns.

Mtra said...

I dare Kate's friend to go meet Kate at a book signing. There she must tell Kate that she sure "fixed" us GWOP'ers

If Kate could not be bothered to greet another set of sextuplets. or thank fans for gifts, i wonder how she will respond to you.

Alyson said...

Is anyone else reminded of the sign that used to be up in front of their old house? The one with such edicts like, "DO NOT look at us, DO NOT try to speak to us?" Echoes from the past, perhaps?

So I say, "Hi Kate!"

fidosmommy said...

N.E. Psychologist said...
@ Vanessa: it's all on film for pete's sake!
************
Yes, and TLC OWNS all that film. You can bet they are doing ALOT of editing for the reruns.

*******

Yeah, all they'll have left is the opening shots and .... and..... and ... opening shots, that's it.

lily said...

Poor thing. Just another hot mess!

BeDoneNow said...

Sharon said...
BeDoneNow - your list was fantastic!!! I would like to add the following:....(snipped)
()()()()()()()()()()()()()()()()()
Thank you friend. I was really hard to stop where I did. Thank you for adding to The List. There are so many frightening instances that K8 so proudly displayed on national TV!


PS - Dear Tony, Is she hitting you yet? If not yet, just give her another week or two.She WILL hit you - while cackeling about it!
Signed, A Viewer's Experience.

iheartmyhubby said...

I thought the house was the kids' house? Why is Kate's "friend" now saying it's "HER" house??

Fufuss said...

Good grief! This must be Khate herself...who else is so controlling as to tell us what we can or can't do?(Are we supposed to bow & scrape now?)

Newsflash, Khate's "friend"! This is America...we can do what we choose to do.

Momof2 said...

Blogger Brummygirl said...

PLEASE NOTE!!
Someone has posted under my name on here. I did NOT make the post regarding the American and British.
....................
..and I thought my username was the only one used on the other Kate sites...cracks me up when they do that

Pa Mom Knows said...

I'm still chuckling over this "advice." Are these "fans" or "friends" or whatever they claim to be really stupid enough to post this list of commandments? If so, their intelligence level must be so low that they can't even figure out that it just cements what we've known all along -- they have no credibility whatsoever.

barbp said...

What? Kate has a friend? I believe we have a comedian in our midst! I laughed so hard I spit my coffee all over my monitor and it shorted out.. seriously, haven't laughed so hard in a long time!

Well, "Kate's friend" (snark)
here is a list of things Kate MAY NOT do:

You MAY NOT deceive fertility doctors.

You MAY NOT deceive the PA court system.

You MAY NOT abuse employees or "not-a-nannies."

You MAY NOT mentally or physically abuse your children.

You MAY NOT use wooden spoons as weapons against your children.

You MAY NOT continue to emasculate your ex-husband or sons.

You MAY NOT continue to trash-talk the father of your children, especially if front of them.

You MAY NOT continue to favor Hannah, especially in front of the other children.

You MAY NOT continue to scam honest
hard-working church-goers for "love offerings."

You MAY NOT continue to put books out and claim sole authorship.

You MAY NOT continue lying to the public.

You MAY NOT continue to make money off the backs of your children.

You MAY NOT deny your children milk, claiming it's expense and then spend said money on your numerous spa trips.

You MAY NOT ever again USE your children for photo ops.

You MAY NOT claim ever again to be a Christian, as you have shown yourself to be anything but.

You MAY NOT hit on married men.
(Hope those wives kick your a**.)

You MAY NOT withhold therapy from your children because you are terrified that your children will out you!!

Well, there's MY list.

Here's what Kate MAY DO:
GO HOME.
Get some SERIOUS therapy.
Earn an honest living that has nothing to do with your kids.
Give them the love and attention that they deserve.

Bets on that anyone? I know, it'll never happen, but we can wish, right? (SIGH..)

barbp said...

Forgot to add this to my list:

You MAY NOT ever again say that you
are "doing this for the kids."

Kate's Friend said...

Fufuss said...


Newsflash, Khate's "friend"! This is America...we can do what we choose to do.

3/15/2010 12:57 PM

Then why can't Kate? There aren't two sets of rules; one for you all and one for Kate.

You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?

fvr4mvp said...

I CAN criticize the way you choose to earn a living.
I CAN criticize the way you raise your children.
I CAN criticize who is signing your paychecks.
I CAN criticize the way you pay your bills.
I CAN criticize what food you put on the table.
I CAN criticize what you are wearing.
I CAN criticize what you are doing for a job.
I CAN criticize your wardrobe.
I CAN criticize where you are living.
I CAN criticize how you treat Jon.
I DON'T watch ANYTHING related to Kate Gosselin.
I CAN'T get away from Kate in the press even though I try really really hard.

Why? It's called free speech. Kate chose to live in the public eye so live with the public out cry.

She's a D List celebrity (celebrity because of her children) looking for an A list opportunity. Get a life and a real job for a change.

No one really cares anymore except for Babymama.

longtimelurker said...

Please pass this along to Kate, a little 'do not' list I came across in my childhood ;)

DO NOT have any other gods before me.

DO NOT make for yourself an idol or worship them


DO NOT make wrongful use of the name of the Lord

DO NOT forget the Sabbath day and keep it holy. .

Honor your father and your mother

DO NOT not murder.

DO NOT commit adultery.

DO NOT steal.

DO NOT bear false witness against your neighbor.

DO NOT covet anything that belongs to your neighbor.

HW said...

Has this been said already?

Kate's friend is just jealous.

Ohio Buckeye said...

Re: Kate's 'friend's' list:

Even God only managed to come up with TEN commandments.

Wonder what it says about the ego of the person who authored Kate's 'friend's' list of Thou Shalt Not's?????

HW said...

Dear Kate's Friend:

Are you serious? I mean...um....what are you going to....um....do to us? Are we facing a penalty of severeness if we break any of your rules?

Because thats *clap* how *clap* we do *clap* things *clap* around here.

Oh, one more thing? Are you a 12-year-old girl?

MickeyMcKean said...

My first reaction to the list: You can't fix stupid.

Regardless of who is behind the alias - whether or not it is Kate, a TLC paid employee or even BM who is only a friend of KG in her own mind - because of our armed forces, where "All Gave Some and Some Gave All", the fact is we all have the right to freedom of speech.

Bottom Line: You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine.

So as for your list, my response is simple:
Kate Gosselin voluntarily signed up with TLC and in return she was paid for her appearances. She knowingly and willing decided to exposed herself [and the Gosselin family] to the public via television. The fact that Kate did not count on all of her "warts" being exposed forever on film and/or that the public would react so strongly to all of these warts - warts,in the form of her lies, actions, behaviors toward her husband, children and staff, yada yada yada - well that is just too bad so sad for Kate. It is what it is and it is only going to get worse for Kate and her Sheeple.

Today's example: NY Times page 6 where it is alleged that Kate is acting like a diva. Like, this was a surprise to anyone on GWoP that Kate would act like a diva .... NOT!

Oh plaleeze, again I point out that Kate is acting like Kate has always acted and all the evidence in regards to her behavior is on film, both 5 seasons of J&K+8 and various other TV appearances and articles. So it does not matter how her PR team would like to spin it, they are dealing with Kate who will never change.

One more time to the Sheeple who continue to wear rose colored glasses: rest assured that I'm not losing any sleep over your personal POV because I know that I can't fix stupid.

JMO.

Janine said...

I used to watch Jon and K8 plus 8 when the babies were little. I became uncomfortable as the most recent Season(s) aired. Her treatment of Jon (constantly) in front of her children was my first concern. Then we know how it all fell apart... When she started investing so much time and money into her 'looks', wearing high heels to pick up kids at car pool, the bikini(s) we were treated to when her bosom suddenly grew... her "tan" in January.
I have commented here before. I have not even been here (thinking the story is BOUND to go away) in a couple of months. I heard K8 say to some interviewer "haven't you seen MY show?" recently. There was a time that I saw something attractive within this family. The kids are adorable, but each one was becoming entitled, arrogant, anti-social much like their momma. I am amazed by the fact that you are still on magazine covers, giving interviews, working on your image. The one improvement that could change my mind is the one where you change your attitude... since that isn't happening, I can only "try" to avoid seeing you. K8 I have been trying... honestly I have. You are still pandoring and selling your soul. The sad fact is, this too is hurtful to your children. I used to LOVE DWTS but I don't think I will be able to stomach seeing and hearing K8 flirt, and cackle and act as if she is somehow more relevant than say 'the first man to walk on the moon' I do hope they put us out of our misery so that we can enjoy the other contestants. K8's phony personality and all that goes with it is nauseating. What was the "Nobu" date last week? I didn't read about it but I did see a photo (seemed posed) and she was in full make-up, had her $3,000 extensions removed and a new look... It is sickening. Oh well.... I guess there are some things in life that are tasteless and difficult. I can honestly say the K8 (I know, I am not allowed to think this, let alone say it)is the one person in pop culture that is profoundly repulsive to me. I did say K8, you are notable in pop-culture... that isn't always a good thing. I hope for your kids, you wake up and really, truly take the high road and get back to just being their mom...

Ohio Buckeye said...

The previous poster is correct: You cannot fix STUPID.

Sadly, neither can you fix such extreme narcissism as seen in Mrs. Gosselin.

She is hopeless.

GoPoshGo said...

Kate's Friend said...
You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?

******************************

She's bAAAaaaaack.

barbp said...

@longtimelurker-

A big high-five to ya!

N.E. Psychologist said...

@ Iheartmyhubby: I thought the house was the kids' house? Why is Kate's "friend" now saying it's "HER" house??
***********
There is NO DIFFERENCE in K8's mind.

kate's an idiot said...

Uh.... Kate's friend, just how are we trying to interfere with Kate's ability to provide for her unfortunate family? We have expressed our opinions about a reprehensible woman and mother on this blog, that's all. Kate is free to pursue employment at McDonalds, in nursing, or in show business if she wants. But she will continue to meet with criticism if she keeps lying about her role in the children's lives. She AND JON support them financially, but there's lots of help from paid employees as far as the actual caring for the kids. In fact, she is said to do almost nothing with those kids she connived to have. She allowed cameras to film her horrible mothering skills for 5 seasons; her lack of maternal drive is eclipsed only by her narcissism and cruelty. So it's not a surprise that anyone who watched JK8 would scoff as she claims to dance with them before bedtime, cook and freeze meals for them, or do anything that does not benefit herself first and foremost. So Kate can keep on being Kate. No one is keeping her from making a living or making an ass of herself. If she can't stand the criticism, she needs to change her behavior or get out of the public spotlight. Pass that onto your "friend" next time you fetch her some Starbucks.

N.E. Psychologist said...

@HW: Dear Kate's Friend:
(snipped)
Oh, one more thing? Are you a 12-year-old girl?
****************
If you are a 12 year old. you are not stupid but have a lot of gtowing up to do and that's ok. If you are an adult, I am so sorry.

Low glucose anyone? said...

Hi "Kate's Friend" (wink wink!!!!)

I'm so disappointed in you, Kate.....having been schooled as a nurse, you should know that low blood sugar (from all that practicing for DWTS) can result in impaired judgement, same as drinking!

Friends don't let friends drink and post! Oh, but wait, Kate doesn't have any friends.

I'll wager that the "CANNOT list" was posted in the wee hours....after her handlers/diva-sitters were fast asleep and not watching her anymore.

barbp said...

@HW

Thanks for the "visual". That was
priceless! Thanks for the laugh.

Calgary7 said...

This list is

FAKE

FAKE

FAKE and I resent being conned by K8. AGAIN.

Why? The DWTS program starts next Monday. The show is desperate for ratings which have been sinking faster than the economy. Series 9 last fall

"DWTS' Monday competitions are averaging 17.1 million viewers — 11% below last fall's first four episodes and 15% below fall 2007 shows. Last week's competition show lured just 16.4 million viewers, lowest since 2006.

Tuesday results shows are down even more, drawing 12.4 million last week and averaging 13.6 million for the season — down 17% from fall 2008. Also troubling: Among the coveted 18-49 age demographic, Monday DWTS shows are down 24%, and Tuesday episodes are off 27%.

But a dull celebrity cast ... appear to be crimping viewership."

source: http://tinyurl.com/ylcpanc

What a better way to create interest in the show than to create some con-troversy in yet another con by K8?

I don't like sneaky liars. And, I resent being manipulated for commercial reasons.

Does anyone else agree? Or am I the only one off planet on this?

Pa Mom Knows said...

"You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?"

-----------------

I rest my case about intelligence and credibity. Either this is an adult who is not the sharpest tool in the shed, or a pre-teenager who is blogging when she should be doing homework instead.

youarenofriendofkatre\\ said...

Funny, if Kate hadn't put herself and her family "out in the media glare"....she wouldn't have any of these issues.

When you become a "star" you open yourself up for the good and the bad.

the old saying "you can't have your cake and eat it too"...rings true here.

If Kate stayed a "nobody" then no one would EVER even give her a second thought.


AND you are NOT a friend of Kate. I know her and she'd NEVER want you to post something so ridiculous online. It's embarrassing!

Tami said...

Then why can't Kate? There aren't two sets of rules; one for you all and one for Kate.

You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?
*******
OK, I'm sure this is fake, but...I'll answer anyway. What about Jon? Why do the sheeple think he should play by different rules? They say why can't he just work at McDonald's or somewhere and support those kids. Why can't their MOTHER?? It goes both ways. She does not own the rights to them, to exploit them. Let her make her own living without using the kids in any way whatsover. Oh, she can't! He is not allowed to do anything whatsoever in the public eye even when it has nothing to do with his kids, yet she was able to do anything she wanted. He could not host some New Year's party but she could try out to ruin Paula Dean's show? Why? Paula Dean's show is not even on TLC. Why does she get to make the talk show rounds, etc? And why, if Jon's name was on the book about their family was he not given credit? Why did TLC, who probably bought the house, give it to Kate when they exploited Jon's kids to earn money just as well as Kate's. Why is she never called on any of her garbage? Think, sheeple, think!

jibberjabbers said...

This is why Kate needs a bodyguard. Crazy fans "pretending to be Kate's friend". I mean, I think you really need to take a deep breath and then go seek help.

Are you the same person who created Kate's twitter account and getting a kick out of all the attention you are receiving "pretending" to be Kate?

Kate has no friend. You are not FOOLING ANYONE. Unless your name is Jamie Cole Ayers? But she's LONG GONE.

I mean why pretend to be someone you're not? Oh wait, you're a Kate supporter. And Kate is having a good time pretending to be a good mom & a Celebrity.

So it's not surprise that you are pretending to be Kate's "friend".

Birds of a feather right?

I mean, why not create a regular name and then submit your little article. Maybe people would take you more seriously.

Instead, you submitted that little "lists of demands" under the alias "Kate's friend".

Any sort of respect, credibility, went out the window when you used that alias.

That's like me using the alias "Jons' friend" and making an outrageous list demands about you sheeple not ragging on him for his mistakes.

If I made the same post, under "Jon friend" and posted those demands at a Kate fan blog, the outcome would have been the same. The only difference would be more cursing, a lot of immature name calling, and tons of spelling/grammar errors.

Gimme Gimme said...

I don't understand the problem about Kate not being able to make a living. Look around you.

Her career is soaring. She is making $75,000 a week on a major network in addition to being on payroll with TLC. She is appearing at the Women's expo's. She is on the cover of People and many other magazines. She is set to be on the View this week. She has been on the morning shows and late night shows. In large part thanks to all the "chatter" about her on the internet the majority of which is negative.

In the minds of TV execs it does not matter whether the chatter is posiive or negative; in fact, controversy, in any form, brings in viewers and that is all they care about. If Kate were not such a controversial figure she would have fallen off the radar long ago. I think Kate very much knows this and plays into the controversy, rather than trying to avoid it. In short you are not doing her any favors and I am not sure she would appreciate what you are doing, although I am sure your intentions are good.

Kate is doing just fine if you haven't noticed.

grannyoftwo said...

You know the really sad part that does enter my mind is that yes..Kate really doesn't have any friends..can you imagine going through your life without one single friend in the world that you can confide in and spill your heart and soul out to? Of course we all know that Kate does that in the mirror, because she is her closest friend, and biggest fan, but all-in-all..it is a sad thing to think about her maybe crying herself to sleep at night thinking about not having one person who really, really, REALLY loves her for who she is, not what she can give them or pay them. We all know she brought all this on herself, but that doesn't take away from the fact that it is just plain sad. I do not know what I would do without my bestest friends whom I love and adore, and share my inner most thoughts/secrets with.

BeDoneNow said...

Dear "Kate's Friend", hahahaha

I asked you before if your mom knows you are using the computer and you didnt answer me. You must be in one of the school systems that is out for an early spring break.

I know it must be hard to understand, because the magazines and TV make it all look so glamorous, but THAT isnt real life and it isnt really 'a job'. To you it seems like 'all the beautiful people are doing it and they have big houses and fancy clothes', but it's not likely what you will choose to grow up to be. In fact, looking back on this someday, you will be embarassed.

"K Friend", when you grow up, complete your college education, dedicate yourself to your profession, perhaps marry and give birth to your first child, then you will see. There is an incredible bond you will feel for your children, their very existence and well being will consume you in many good ways.

Every once in a while, something goes haywire in the souls of some mothers. The maternal human instincts arent there. I am sure that you have heard of the cases where a woman has many children but then allows them to be harmed, neglected etc. So very sad and they dont really know what causes that in a woman. It goes against human nature.

Our problem with Kate is that in many ways she behaves the same. Something is missing, wrong. TLC decided to make a freak show of her and claim that this is an example of a 21st century mother. They did it for a freak-show laugh. But some of you started to buy it. All the other hard working, intensly loving 21st moms are pretty horrified that young ones like you think it is OK to raise children the way Katie Gosselin does. It is NOT ok, in fact it is disturbed and we are worried that part of you thinks that if you can just act like her, you too can have vactions and pretties handed to you in adoration.

We ARE paying her wages. In college you will learn much more about micro and macro economics and you will see that every single dime in her pocket comes directly from us. So we will continue to protest that she is NOT a good example of a mother.

And by the way, dearest, hundreds of thousands of people through the years have raised fine large families in cozy loving homes on a nurses salary. Good RNs make more money than you will for many many years! THAT is another thing that GWoP-ers know.

SafetyTrain said...

Kate HAS THE RIGHT to earn a living.

No one said she didn't. But when we watch her treat people like crap, then have her publicists turn around and try to paint her as a saintly human being deserving of both fame and fortune, we have right to think they're full of it.

You CANNOT or WILL NOT EVER tell her how to raise her children.

Unfortunately you are right. But when she neglects and bullies them and then broadcasts that to the world, she's opening herself up to criticism. Hey, no one forced her to let us "peek through the window". There's no guarantee that everything we do in life is going to be met with smiles and rainbows by our fellow human beings and Kate is no exception.

You DO NOT sign her paychecks.

Which is good for Kate, cause she'd have been fired a long time ago if I did.

You DO NOT pay her bills.

Thank God. The spa bills alone would ruin 99% of the hard-working families in this country.

You DO NOT put food on her table.

I know. Because putting some apple slices and a cracker on a paper plate is way too hard for most of us.

You CANNOT decide her career choice.

You are right, but when that career choice included stealing money from church congregations by claiming to be poor and struggling when she actually just bought a million dollar mansion, society has the right to have an opinion on that.

You CANNOT tell Kate what she should wear.

You are right, but someone needs to tell her to cover those things up for heaven's sake. We have children that need to be protected too.

You CANNOT decide how she styles her hair.

Darn, you found out. Yes it was us along who forced her to have bad extensions done and then dragged her kicking and screaming to the People photo shoot to
have it debuted to the world on the cover.

You CANNOT decide where Kate and her children will live.

Luckily for her we don't! Kate would be living alone in a luxury house in the Antarctic if we could!

You CANNOT EVER tell Kate to let her irresponsible ex-husband, Jon, to stay in HER house when she is away for whatever reason.

Umm, Kate said herself in the latest People that she's supposedly letting Jon get extra time with the kids while she's away. As her "friend" do you know something we don't?

DO NOT watch Kate on TV if you don’t like her. DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her.

I think that suggestion goes both ways.

The Big Wooden Spoon said...

longtimelurker said...
*snipped*
DO NOT make for yourself an idol or worship them
***********

Didn't you mean "DO NOT make yourself an idol and worship yourself"?
LOL!
(BTW, I'm not being disrespectful to Christians -- I am one)

The Big Wooden Spoon said...

Kate's Friend said...
Fufuss said...


Newsflash, Khate's "friend"! This is America...we can do what we choose to do.

3/15/2010 12:57 PM

Then why can't Kate? There aren't two sets of rules; one for you all and one for Kate.

******
If Kate chooses to beat her children, trash has husband, and lie-lie-lie on public TV, then she has chosen to be criticized. Personally, I do not do those things, even in private.
Most people actually welcome criticism, because they can learn from it.

If Kate doesn't want people judging her behavior, she should get her big mug out of the public eye.

Charlie Rose said...

You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?

-------------
Sorry Kate's friend, but she isn't doing it to PROVIDE for her family, she is doing it for FAME. Anyone with eyes can see this. TLC has the entire family under contract, the kids are not going without so give up the excuse that she is trying to provide for her family. She is a greedy narcissist that is looking after ONLY herself.

SeriouslySerious said...

Kate's Friend said...
You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?

********************************

I will only be content when she goes away and takes responsibility for all of her lies. I would mark that day on my calendar.


Ok, I'll take a stab at it...things she (you) do right (since all we write about is what she/you does wrong)...ummmmmm....ummmmmm...hold on...it's coming....made some pretty darn cute kids then you exploited them...man this is hard. Ummmmm....friend/K8, can you help me out?

How can any of us interfere with her ability to provide for her family? I didn't know I (or anyone else on this site) had that kind of power. I only wish I possessed that kind of power because things would be a lot different at my job if that were true.

This kind of statement just tells me someone is a bit threatened. A bit 'off-center' as they say. You GWoPpers are right...it is much like a middle schooler and I know a few adults who are still stuck mentally at that age. Hmmmm...just saying.

she is evil said...

The sad thing is that Kate and her supporters see nothing wrong with the way those eight kids are being raised. What young child would want to be left in the "capable hands" of nannies in a big house with no parents around? Those kids DO live in an orphanage.

lontimelurker said...

Kate'(s Friend)...
We do not begrudge Kate trying to make a living, it is the hypocrisy and lies we cannot swallow. We're just suggesting that if it is really kids first, there are other ways to support them that does not require you to keep up an image and spend days away from them. But if you choose to make a living this way, than it is really lifestyle first. I thought DWTS was just about a 'mom having fun' - at least that is what you told People mag. This means you are choosing fun - FOR YOU, not your kids.
There would be ALOT less wrong with your choices if you were honest about your motive.

Art Girl said...

I got it! Kate's friend is her "imaginary" friend. What other types of friends does she have??

Fufuss said...

Kate's Friend said...
You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?
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Dear K8s"friend"

If you check you will find that I have never spoken to K8...so how can I tell her anything? And how do you know if I like being told what to do or not?
She (K8) can say whatever she wants to about me, but I'm not a public figure therefore she would not know anything about me. If I were a "star" like her highness, I'd have to take whatever the public had to say about my life.

"Friend"...are you so dense that you don't understand how life goes once you go "Hollywood"? -Maybe you aren't dense...just not old enough to understand that life isn't fair...and believe me, there's always some one who gets to tell you what to do. Grow up!

Sheri said...

Kate's "Friend" said:

"You don't like being told what to do yet you are content to tell Kate everything she does wrong, why AND you all also try interfere in her ability to provide for her family. You wouldn't anyone doing that to you, why is OK for you all to do that to her?"

When will you realize that Kate totally invited the scrutiny she is now enduring?

From the first medical treatment she had to "have just one more" when she and Jon were struggling to support their twins, to divorcing their kids' father when he wanted to walk away from the cameras...she CHOSE this.

With every snarky, diva, it's-all-about-me, action that she's made since has only proved that she is more interested in being famous than being a mom.

If I behaved like that, I would hope that someone would step in and put me in check.

Kate might not appreciate it but I'm banking that one day at least her kids will know that there were people on THEIR side.

Barbara in VA said...

Everything that BeDoneNow said in her post, I agree in spades!

We can't be bullied, K8, or whatever "friend" K8 paid to write the original post. We aren't children, we aren't related to you, we don't give a damn what you think or say. You aren't smart enough to banter on this site, dear, so go home and pour yourself another glass of wine.

Rebecca said...

"DO NOT read about Kate or comment about Kate if you do not like her."

I was actually with the author up until she said this. Sure, Kate's life is Kate's life. I can disapprove, but there is nothing I can do about it.

However, I can most certainly express my disapproval. Seriously? I study criminals every day, that doesn't mean I have to like them. The same is true of Kate. I can read about her and comment on her, that doesn't mean I have to like her. Don't be silly.

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