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Natalie said...

Kate: Do you think your children will cut you out of their lives the way you cut your parents out of yours?

Baker said...

I would ask: "Why did you renew your vows a year ago if you were unhappy? Why tell the kids you are going to be together forever and ever?" Free Hawaii trip, maybe?

goawayfools said...

Kate, after you hit the kids or Jon, do you give them a hug, a kiss on the cheek, look them in the eye and say I'm sorry?

Janet said...

Stop the show and stop doing press.

Winston said...

I want to know if they pay taxes on past love offerings and/or freebies. Also, did either one of them have any shred of genuine feelings at the vow renewal, or was it simply for a free trip to Hawaii? Did you tell the kids that they aren't allowed in your bedroom so that they would not see that Jon wasn't sleeping there?

konspiracytheory said...

To both Jon and Kate:

I know you *say* that you appreciate that you have eight healthy children, but I don't think you really get it. I think you both pay lip service to what "could have happened", especially with the tups, but I don't think either of you has ever really stopped to consider how fortunate you are in that department.

And Kate, trust me on this one: if you think you're "exhausted" now, trying dealing with even just one of your children having a chronic illness and/or developmental delays.

LP said...

Love your kids more than you love the lifestyle & "fame". End the show for their wellbeing and let them live normal lives.

jaxmama said...

To Jon & Kate: If either (or both) of you want a career in media, fine. But get your kids off the air ASAP. They deserve privacy. At most, do a yearly special like the Dilleys.

toad2250 said...

Didn't anyone tell you that when you have children YOU are not number 1 anymore? Get a clue. Get 8 clues.

TandLMommy28 said...

Dear Jon,

I think you are a good guy who really loves his kids and I am sorry you were abused but right now it's not about you, it's about the kids. Refuse to film on your days with the kids. At least that would prove that you care more about the kids well-being than Kate.

Dear Kate,

You are a horrible person. You are selfish, egocentric and a little bit frightening. Someday you are going to get what is coming to you. That's a reality show I might actually watch.

Genevieve said...

My one thing I could say to the two of them would be: Stop the show. You've both done enough damage to all involved,especially the children.

Snap! said...

Quit the show.

Melissa said...

Nobody likes either one of you, so stop playing the victim.

stopthemadness said...

If you don't protect your children from being unpaid, unregulated child actors, someone else will. Be the good guys here, because the other option is that there will be a law named after you, protecting kids from exploitation by their parents, and no tv show will touch you again.

qtrfan said...

Note to Kate: If you want to keep the issues in your marriage private as you keep saying, then SHUT UP!

Flapping your jaw to People Magazine and LKL is not keeping family matters private.

Duh!

Protect8 said...

I would say to Jon: "Continue to speak up as honestly as possible; try to get more time in the custody arrangement even if it means fighting in court; and most of all, protect your children and their young, fragile egos from their mother's vindictiveness. You are your children's only hope."

goawayfools said...

Why the new tatas, Kate? Did the kids want you to have new breasts?

momof2 said...

Take a step back and a deep breath. Close your mouth and stop calling the paps. Most of all think about doing fun things with your kids when the cameras are not around. I'm sure they would enjoy a tradition like sunday ice cream much better than these expensive trips and stupid themed days that only happen when the cameras are around. Give them some consistancy.

HW said...

Kate-
Please just admit how horribly you treated Jon. Stop trying to pretend it didn't happen. Your campaign to improve your image is useless for those of us with any memory at all.
Acknowledge your part in the breakup of your marriage.

Jon-
Stop whining about being 32 and having 8 kids. You have always been the better parent but your recent behavior is not working in your favor. Move out of the condo in NYC and back to PA so you can be close to your kids. Believe me, these years go by quickly enough, you will have plenty of time for yourself when the kids are grown and on their own.

rachel said...

If you really want to put your children first, then stop filming and give them the privacy they deserve. Not only do they have to put up with cameras in their home and in their lives, but now they have to watch your ugly marital strife play out in the tabloids. Please stop. For them.

Ryan's Mom said...

Stop the show NOW and stay out of the public glare. You can do it if you really want to.

Cocoa said...

Jon: Stay on the fact track. No name calling(think of the children.) Seek immediate help from good lawyers and PR people so that Kate cannot derail you. Take the high road, you'll be glad you did.

Cocoa said...

Kate: Think of the children, not yourself. Remember, you choose that man to make those children.

EandKmom said...

Jon--please get your children off the air!!! Don't renew the contract with TLC. Fight for it to end when you go to court. This is not healthy for those 8 beautiful kids.

Anonymous said...

Stop the show. Go on with your lives out of the media spotlight. The all mighty dollar has gone to your heads. You say you are doing this “for the kids”. That is bull. You should know by now that money does not buy happiness.

The damage that has been done, the things said will remain on the Internet forever. Your children will read it eventually. Today is the first day of your children’s lives – let them make memories they can be proud of.

God Bless the Gosselin Children.

K8 aint GR8 said...

NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU!

Get off your high horse and get back to your responsibilities as PARENTS.

Do you even care about being a parent to your kids anymore?

Your kids owe NOTHING to the public, so stop using them for your own publicity.

WorkerBee said...

Because of J&K need for money and fame it has ruined your family and I'm so sad for your children.

Haha said...

Kate, have you gained weight lately?

Mikemom said...

Jon: You have said your peace. Now move on, even if it means continueing counseling. Center your self around your family. Tell TLC goodbye. If Kate wants to continue so be it. You can't change her but you can change yourself. Your children need stablity and love in their life and you can be the one to give that to them. I believe you have it in you.

Midwest Mom said...

I'd like to ask Kate why she won't just admit that the vow-renewal ceremony in Hawaii was fake, fake and more fake.

Auntiebon said...

As Judge Judy says "You have to love your kids more than you hate each other" Please step away from the cameras and heal your family.

SarahinTO said...

Nothing else matters in life other than the beautiful eight children you have. NOTHING. Stop whatever else you are doing/caring about and take care of those eight souls you have brought into this world.

It's Over said...

Dear Gosselins:
I and most people I know have gone from from being fans (early days) to replused (08-09) to now not even caring what yo're up to. Do the world a favor and GIVE IT UP ALREADY. Be smart and use all the contacts you have made over these tv yrs to find a respectable way to support your family, but out of the public eye. We're sick of looking at them and you! Adios and best wishes!

bcsurvivor2001 said...

I would tell them:

If you want your private things kept private - listen to your own advise. DON"T give the tabloids anything to publish. Period. End of story.

To Jon said...

You need to get better advisors. You did a great job on your interview despite the hostel interviewer. Stay away from ABC, they have a vested interest in Kate since she's going to be on The View. Your PR needs to find friendlier outlets, or at least neutral enviroments for you to be heard.

Lisa said...

The one thing I'd say to them is:

"End the show. It broke up your marriage and will cost you and your kids thousands of dollars in therapy in the future. No amount of money is worth what this has done to your kids."

Melissa said...

You both say your kids are your top priority...prove it!

Jessica said...

At what cost are your children receiving the best opportunities currently presented to them? At what cost?

marypoppins said...

The tv show has afforded you celebrity and a lifestyle you never imagined 10 yrs ago.

Do you love your kids enough to give it all up.

ihatethisshow said...

kate, do you realize you are the national joke?
you are famous for being a bitch and a spouse abuser---does that make you proud?
jon...get your attys to clean her clock. get those kids a good atty, get them off the air. start the ball rolling for national laws concerning child labor laws--your countrymen will love you for it (as well as your own kids).
get some counseling to get your head on straight. you are the better parent of the two. introduce the kids to ALL of their family--it is what is in the best interest of the kids. khate can just gnash her veneered teeth.
you seem to be a decent guy, just married the wrong woman.

Ashlee said...

Kate; You disgust me. You need to quit the show, go home and be with your kids whenever you can.

Jon; You are a good father making some bad choices. Try to get your kids off tv. And write a tell all book ^.^

ELLA Lag said...

Dear Kate

Your Hair is fake, your nails are fake, your boobs are fake, your tummy is fake, your tan is fake, the last year of your marriage was fake, YOUR SHOW IS FAKE!!

Please go away

becka said...

Jon you mentioned your bill for counseling. Have you or Kate discussed getting counseling for Cara or Mady?

I can't imagine the stress and humiliation these two litle girls must be going thru thanks to you two idiots.

Five Six Seven.... said...

Please show records of money put aside for your childrens education, thank you.

Orla said...

"There comes a time when a woman needs to stop thinking about her looks and focus her energies on raising her children. This time comes at the moment of conception. A child needs a role model, not a supermodel.

~Astrid Alauda, on the "hot mom" trend

Carol said...

Jon & Kate, We all make mistakes. Life can be hard. Family is so very important. Even your parents made mistakes. Forgive & Forget. We don't live forever. Life is short. Once someone dies, you can't get them back. Please give your kids a normal life & keep the family close to heart. Nothing else matters. Sadly, you sometimes learn this when you are older but then it can be too late. Quit wasting time.

liz said...

Kate: You are a despicable human being. I am glad people speak out about your wrong doing. You can't hide behind your 8 children no more. You will be hold liable for your action.

I also despise Kate said...

Kate: If you take being hands on mother out of equation. You are nobody. There is nothing valuable and interesting about you. You have no talent to offer.

Laurie said...

You are going from being Jon & Kate to "just Jon" and "Just Kate". The next step in this sad cycle will be "I used to be Jon & Kate Plus 8 - I WAS famous" with WAS being the opoerative word here. Save your money and get the kids out of the spotlight. As someone else said, love your kids more than you hate each other.

Broke said...

Can I please have my "love offering" back????????

biggestjesusfan said...

Kate in the early days of the show you talked about your Christian faith. What do you think your current actions are saying about you now as a Christian? Do you know that the bible says that the love of money is the root of all evil? Do you see what your love of money has plunged your family into? Noone can stand you anymore. The only reason people watch the show or buy the mags is so that they can make fun of you. Your children are hurting. Everyone can see it. Can you see it? If you can then that is even worse, because you see that your children are hurting and yet you do nothing about it. There is nothing that is going to help the situation as long as you are continuing to do this show, because the show created the problems to begin with.

jessy said...

Jon, you are a good person and kind soul. You have the good foundation in you. You made some mistakes lately because you were not able to make decision and think during those 10 years of marriage. I believe you will come around and do better and better each day. NEVER let any woman isolate you from your family again.

Keith said...

Jon: Save your children from abusive Kate. Even you as an adult were so beat down and not recognizable. Imagine what her abuse would do to the children. The kids will grow out of the cute stage and start to irritate Kate. Stand up for your children. Tell that woman no spanking, no verbal and emotional abuse.

rehab said...

Jon: If Kate abuses the children verbally and emotionally, please TELL THE JUDGE to warn her. Please, I am begging you. The kids won't make it.

You turned to alcohol for a while. Your kids will turn to drugs if you don't stop the abuse.

So DONE with the KON said...

First, get over yourselves; your children were (yes, I mean 'were' which is past tense!) the draw for the show, not either one of you.

Second, you guys are blessed beyond belief; you have eight healthy children and the means to take care of them. It is your job to raise them to be happy, healthy, productive members of society. Please, please, please, stop saying that they deserve this or that (they really don't!), because this is going to cause problems for them in the long run. You must work on healing your relationship so that you can co-parent these children. Nothing else really matters.

eileen said...

Jon/Kate: God is waiting to be placed #1 in your lives. If your marriage is beyond repair, forgive each other and move on...but most of all, ask your children's forgiveness ... maybe you can then salvage your lives so you can be a mother and father to your traumatized and innocent children...

grannyoftwo said...

Those of us hoping for a chance that Kate will get asked some hard questons or face the wrath on The View can forget about it. Just heard yesterday that Sheri is on Kates side and wants to ask her if she wants her help with setting Jon's new car on fire. She said she would help her do it. Those ladies are with Kate and are going to eat her up and give her the Queen Kate treatment for sure. I cannot stand it any longer. These people who are thought to be such intelligent people are really no more than superficial idiots! How in the world did they ever pass an sat test or any other for that matter? Besides getting these high paid jobs on talk tv or anything else. Goes to show you, we must be idiots to, to watch such junk at that show.

Guilty said...

I am so sorry I watched your lives fall apart. I tried to stop it. I couldn't. I hope you can put it back together again. For your kids sake.

Grateful said...

Kate & Jon, Thank you for teaching me to be a better wife, Mom, sister, Aunt, friend....Thank you for teaching me to be a better PERSON!

wkh said...

The Dionne Quints are wondering if they could have a word with you two.

Cisco said...

What goes around, comes around Kate. Karma will catch up to you.

Sidney said...

Shouldn't you Gosselins, in good faith, offer to pay back government for the services you received? Or at minimum, return the charitable donations you received along the way? How can you show your faces in public, knowing it is we, the public, who paid for your pregnancy, birth, and the care of your babies? Why should you get off scott free and let us pay?

Aren't you at all embarrassed to have taken so much from so many, including the love offerings you took from the churches?

Monica said...

Kate, you say that the kids are NOT in counseling at this time - is it because you're worried what they will tell the counsellor? (the truth about what has really gone on in the household). Are you worried that the kids will TELL and that you'll risk having them be taken away from you?

lawgirl1982 said...

Stop. Filming. Now.

Pilgrim Soul said...

Jon -

You are not a bad guy at heart, and I, like many, recognize the abuse you received at Kate's hands.

Don't let her continue to pimp them out for big dollars. Take a stand. Protect your children.

You'll be father of the year, for sure.

Zayna said...

Jon and Kate - Do some research about the Dionne Quints and the Loud Family.

"Television ate my family." - Lance Loud.

The only hope your children have lies in you both growing up and putting them before your own egos.

home50 said...

Jon, Please speak more kindly to Joel. You are doing to him what Kate has done to you.

Kate, 'If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all'. Thus, no comment.

Mom said...

Please apologize and treat each other with dignity and respect, for the kids' sake

Amanda said...

Jon and Kate:
The single most important rule in divorce is you must love your children more than you hate your ex.

Learn that, and shut up. Both of you. Good grief.

stupid Kate said...

Kate, How come you talk to the camera more than you talk to your kids? Do they like their new kitchen? Your new boobs? How's the wooden spoon doing?

sunny days said...

Did you ask your plastic surgeon to make you look like Grover on Sesame Street?

TxMama said...

I think that I would just play for them the song "Slow Fade" by Casting Crowns. If you haven't heard it, you should def check it out on itunes.

I am not a fan of JK+8. I will not watch this or any TLC shows until JK+8 is gone but I do have sympathy for them on some level. We all have things in our lives that can destroy us if we let them. Unfortunately they let them.

Team Jon ... were still here! said...

to jon:


Start taking care of yourself and exercise, exercise, exercise. The more you work out, the longer you live (running 40 min or another activity like....swimming every day is proven to give you 50% chance at a longer life)the more likely you are to outlive her.

Can you just imagine what she will say about you in the future if that woman outlives you???!!!

Not only will you look svelte, but who knows....can you say modeling job opportunity? That would be the stake in her shallow heart.

Not a fan of either said...

Jon & Kate: Stop. Just stop. You are breaking my heart and I can only imagine the damage you are doing to your children. Stop the ugly comments about the children's parents. I promise you, you will regret it. Stop the show. Just stop. That's about all I have to say anymore.

You can't last said...

Jon & Kate: You have enough money. Spend it wisely and it will last you a very long time. Because you two are not going to last in this media circus forever. You just don't have what it takes. Does it not shame you that the public interest in you is because of your dsyfunction. Divide up the money and live in peace.

fidosmommy said...

To both Jon and Kate:

What benefits have the children
received from 5 seasons on the air?
Please name them specifically. Are they tangible "things" or are they emotionally strengthening benefits that will serve them for a lifetime?

Now, what have they missed in their lives to this point that other non-famous children in central PA enjoy?

What would you do differently if you could wind the clock back to
2003 and start over again from there?

enoughalready said...

To JOn Gosselin:
Please Jon - HOld your head up high - leave this debacle and sham of a life on TV. Retreat to your own residence and keep away from the spotlight. In your case, silence is golden. Let that other woman speak as much as she wants - she will drown in her own pool of insincerity and over inflated self worth.

KidsrGreat said...

Jon: Grow-up, stop smoking, and keep loving the kids and truly begin to appreciate each and every one of them.

Kate: Please do not say, "Everything I do is for the kids" ever again. Ask your kids what you can do for them, not what they can do for you. Develop a conscience and a heart.

Carolyn said...

Kate,

You are ugly and you dress yourself funny.

Im_in_PR said...

Jon, you were the heart and soul of the Gosselin family. Do the only right thing left to do. Sell the NYC condo and move to the Etown home and RAISE YOUR CHILDREN. Nothing else matters. All this money is about to go away anyway, as the both of you have completely squandered any opportunities you had to be sympathetic public figures.

Kate, it must s*ck to be you and know that the only reason Steve is in your life is because you pay him. He doesn't respect you any more than you respected Jon. He just hides it better.

Both of you should get those kids off TV and stop pimping out your children so you can have boob jobs, sports cars and spa trips.

Suzanne said...

J/K: It isn't too late to do the RIGHT thing. Your lies/hearts have been exposed. For the sake of your 8, pull the plug on all of this. Pick up the Good Book, your recipe for fixing this is within its pages and you BOTH know this. Your entire family is waiting and so is HE.

Paige (Final Clothes-Out) said...

Your children will grow up to hate both of you the way you hate each other.

Philly Hockey Mom said...

Jon and Kate:

STFU!



TxMama.....Slow Fade is so right on! Good Call!

rural mom said...

Kate: Why didn't you seek help for your phobias and mental illness long before turning your children into germaphobes who cry and freak out if their hands or clothes get dirty?
Jon: Why did you stand by and let Kate do that to your kids?

cdnmom47 said...

I only have a message for Jon 'cause I know Kate would never ever listen to advice from anyone.

Jon: First of all straighten up your life and sue for full custody of those children. Just as you were abused, so are they, but they are voiceless. They can't escape it as you did.

Secondly: you might not think they're 'working' when they're on the show, but it IS considered work. Turn off the cameras now while they still have a chance at a normal life.

Thirdly: Embrace the kids' extended family and old friends. They truly care about those kids and Lord knows those kids need people in their lives who love them for themselves.

Ohio Buckeye said...

K8: With your lack of patience, mean spirited comments, constant judgment and criticism, complete lack of joy about life, coupled with your need to control even the most inconsequential details of everything and everyone around you, the behavior you are modeling for your 8 kids is simply not a healthy example of how to 'do' life.

And I'm not even counting all the Rich and Famous stuff you've been up to since you went into Mansion Mode. That's a whole 'nother chapter of terrible behavior modeling.

SEEK IMMEDIATE PROFESSIONAL HELP. You have major psychological issues. Remove the stick and your head and realize your behavior is not normal and is detrimental to children trying to learn about life from your example.

Ohio Buckeye said...

Ditto on what HW said.

muchsmartermom said...

Kate is it difficult to sleep at night? I mean lay your head on your pillow knowing that you treated your husband like dirt for 10 years.
Sold off your childrens precious young years for your material life,

Does it keep you up at night that majority of the thinking world, despises you--that your a joke?
That mother's use you as an example of how not to act?

Or do they prescibe medicine so you wake each morning and keep repeating your mistakes?

Just wondering?

lisa k. said...

Kate..
Think about your kids for once in your life, admit you were wrong and step out of this with a little dignity.
Jon...
I don't know how you put up with the shrew this long. Good to know you finally woke up and got out of there..now go and rescue the children.

mans best friend said...

Shoka and Nala, attack! Just the large one mean one that looks like Grover (LOL sunny days)

God said...

Jon and Kate, this is God. Please stop or I will smite you. Believe me, you're working on my last nerve.

roastedmadness said...

Jon and Kate, I hope that when you grow old and feeble & are wearing bibs and adult diapers...that your children treat you just as they were treated.
oops... "Mommy pooped in Mommy's unnerwears"

Kannie said...

Shut up. Go away. Forever.
You've tortured us long enough.

Seek counselling.

Kate, fire your hairdresser.
Jon, lose the man boobs.

Donna Day said...

Jon....hang in there. I understand you're frustrated at the world for being so unfair. Just think of your kids, your family that loves you, and yourself. You have the gift of life again. Treasure it and take good care of it

texas two step said...

I would ask:
Khate- how can you look at yourself in the mirror everyday? how can you continue to convince yourself that everything you're doing is "for the kids"?

Tangerine Tanya said...

Kate,

Will you keep the name Gosselin or change your name back to Kreider?

Miss said...

Kate you say that you want to keep things private as far as you and Jon yet you had your kids potty training experience filmed!

kate has no friends said...

Kate-

How does it feel to know your only"friends" or "companions" are people who are on your/tlc's bankroll?

Ladylou said...

I'd ask them both "Is the money REALLY worth it?"
If "yes" I hope they could come up with some valid answers as I don't see any.
If "no" then they need to stop the show RIGHT NOW.

K8 ain't GR8 said...

roastedmadness said...

Jon and Kate, I hope that when you grow old and feeble & are wearing bibs and adult diapers...that your children treat you just as they were treated.
oops... "Mommy pooped in Mommy's unnerwears"
-----------------------------------
BRILLIANT!

...but you forgot about the bibs!

Melanie P. said...

I would ask where their sense of entitlement comes from. I would ask why they think they are so much better than others, but will accept their money as 'love offerings'. I would ask how they can sleep at night, and look at themselves in the mirror. I would ask how they can claim they're doing this for their kids, when it's so obvious they're not.

Tuesday said...

Kate, How many minutes per day do you spend with each of your children in a positive parent-child relationship? .. per month/week/year? Face reality. You are not a positive influence in their lives.

Attention Whores need help said...

Kate: Why would you bring eight kids into this world then not be interested in them?

Missysmom said...

Jon,

One day I looked at my abusive (ex) husband and said, "You know, I can have lots of husbands, but I'll only have ONE mother and ONE father and you're not going to keep me from them any more." When I left him, I felt like I was freed from prison, just like you do now.

But please, please don't leave your kids still imprisoned. They can't fight back. Help them. Now.


Kate,

There's something you obviously never learned in Science class: the world revolves around the SUN. Not you.

joy said...

Kate: Your kids are going to abandon you just like you discarded your parents when you don't give them what they want. Karma is a B.

Jon is a Loving Dad said...

To Jon: I know what you meant when you said, "Maybe I didn't kiss Mady & Cara enough". Kate governed how and even when you were allowed to show your own kids love and affection. Discipline and control with a stern hateful hand was her way, never yours. How sad. It's clear the kids are much happier with you. Please ensure you get more than 50% of the custody time.

Kathy L said...

Please get off tv. You don't need the money.

Mystical said...

Kate, do NOT cage the German Shepards during your stay at the house. It is cruel and it is clear you loathe them. Pay the money to send them to a doggie daycare for that entire week. Your kids are abusing them now, as we saw on RadarOnline. Pehaps they learned that cruel behavior from you? We all saw you hit one of the dogs during a picnic lunch, and scream at Jon to cage them.....and added, that's where dogs belong! Sick!

Mystical said...

Correction....We saw a child hit the German Shepards with a baseball bat on TMZ. The poor dogs were hunched down with their tail between their legs, so this heart-breaking event was nothing new.

Kate is ugly said...

It is ironic that Kate is trying to change all the wrong things about herself. All that plastic surgery and all people can see is ugliness.

AnnaB. said...

Jon,

We all saw Khate abuse you for years on the show. Id LOVE to see you become an advocate for abused male spouses. We all know if you had treated Khate the way she treated you, you would likely be the proud owner of a protection order and called every vile name in the book. I hate that Khate is praised and given more oppourtunity after witnessing her actions against you. Take the lemons of your expirence and make lemonade!

Your kids will also learn to not be her victims and will also be very proud of the Dad that stood up for them.

Steve Gosselin said...

Kate, what's the deal with Steve? Why do you insist on having him guard you? Why is he risking his professional reputation by working for you? He is becoming a joke like you. You do not need protection; people are running away from you, not towards you. Does he like the notoriety too? He sure seems willing to be photographed walking behind you. Sad that your one "friend" needs to be paid.

Go Away said...

Dear Kate:
You have everything you ever wanted; the big house, free trips, and most of all the attention. Was it worth it? Do you even realize the high price you've paid; no friends that aren't paid by TLC, no family, no husband, and 8 children who will someday be able to share their experience with the world.

Tami said...

Do you feel you have any responsibility for raising the family you both chose without the help of the general public or expecting your children to work? Do you feel you are any more entitled to shirk your responsibilities than the average large family simply because you had your children through fertility treatments?

Tami said...

Jon, no one, and I mean no one, is interested in seeing you, Lohan, KFed, etc, in Divorced Dads Club. There are some networks that will air crap like that, but it is beneath normal people to watch it. It is not worth demeaning yourself more (and I say more because of the Vegas fiasco) just to avoid a regular job. Get one! Your kids will be proud, but not of that stupid idea for a show!

so obvious said...

Kate, I fear that your vile behavior and callous mothering will result in eight very troubled adults some day.You wouldn't consider counseling to improve your relationship with Jon. Bad enough. But you don't love your kids enough to want to improve yourself for them. They are suffering. Look at this blog; you are disliked immensely. YOU are the one who needs to change. Do it before your legacy is eight little juvenile delinquents.

enoughalready said...

To Kate: What is it with that bodyguard of yours? Is he you bodyguard? BoyFriend? partner? Lover? ...what? and if he is your boyfriend, what is it with the wife? Are you part of a threesome? What kind of image and message are you sending to your blind followers? YOU HYPOCRITE - you are not impressed with Jon's new image at parties but you are doing exactly the same with your lifestyle.

Wondering said...

Kate,
You must have watched the DVD's of the show. I know your kids have watched them. Aren't you even a little embarrassed to see how you treated Jon? He obviously isn't perfect but no human being should have to live 10 years taking the abuse he did. Get some help before your kids cut you out of their lives.

Duckman said...

Hey Kate,

Do you know what planet you're on?

Better yet, do know which reality you're living in? It's not any that we know about.

Tyra said...

Kate...PLEASE get some parenting classes and get your children off T.V.

Preesi said...

Jon?

If Kate abused you and beat you down for 10 years, why do you leave your children with her? Wont she do the same to them?

we don't wanna see them said...

Kate would you pose for playboy if they paid you $500,000? Why the sudden morals and principles?

konhasyoufooled said...

My question would be....Why do you constantly LIE?

EmilyH said...

I would ask Jon and Kate what it's like to sell your soul to a television station....

DLCSF said...

Two questions for Kate.

1. How long do you think you can keep this up before you totally break? It's coming and you know it's going to be out there for the world to see because you insist on living your life that way.

2. When it happens and you end up in some private hospital with an actual psychiatrist telling you to just stop the show and the acting out and the hatred because continuing will cost you everything, will you finally listen?

can't stand her said...

Oh Kate, you are so stupid. It is YOUR fault, YOUR choices, YOUR behavior, YOUR selfishness. All these unhappy lives and you don't care because you are getting attention, albeit negative. YOU need to change, YOU have the problem, go fix it, bitch.

Sad for you said...

Kate - It must be so sad to know that your only "friends" are people that are being paid to be around you AND that have to sign a confidentiality agreement. It must also be sad to know that your "BFF/bodyguard" has to bring his wife into the mix to try and fix your tranished image. So very, very Mommy Dearest.

stay green said...

Hey Kate, now that the show is about to die, why don't you make nice with Jon and try for just one more baby so you can see what it's like to have just one?

junebug said...

Jon: Hold your cards close to your vest, hold your children closer.

Kate: I hope Jons lawyer mops the floor with you.

you're so vain said...

How early does Kate wake up to do her hair and makeup before she calls the paparazzi and drops the kids off at the bus?

Julie said...

I'd say "Leave the show and get a life. Take your kids out of the limelight." I see that Jon is on Twitter now...he's @JonGosselin1

Works_for_a_living said...

Jon,

You are most definately the more loving and nurturing parent. Please try to contain your anger toward Kate, however justified, for the sake of your kids. Also, PLEASE don't talk about how much you love your life in New York on t.v and in front of your kids. There is no room for them in your New York apartment, OR in your New York life. Move back and be their DAD!

Kate,

When Joel McHale from "The Soup" can see the way you abused Jon and your exploitation of the children, it's a sign that it's time to step back and take a long, hard look at what you've allowed yourself to become.

MBach said...

Dear Jon,
I get it now - You ARE an abused husband. I'm sorry I dismissed your role in this as just lazy, or immature.
Please continue to get counciling, and continue to grow stronger. You need to be brave, and you have to stand up to your abuser. She told you the marriage was over almost a year ago, and you are still feeling hurt, suffering, and frightened. Please don't feel that all of these problems are your fault. When you continue to blame yourself, you are still under the control of your abuser.
People on this website often say you should grow a pair, but they have not walked in your shoes. You can't change overnight, but you CAN change.
Save yourself, stop acting out like a first year college student who never experienced resposibilty, THEN get in there and SAVE YOUR CHILDREN!
THEY NEED YOU.

Please consider offering yourself as a spokesperson for other abused husbands. I have read several sources on this, and there are many more husbands that suffer in silence. You could be a face and voice in saving them all while saving yourself. Use the power of love to heal yourself, and others.

Laurie said...

An interesting take on things from E!Online article. In it the author refers to K8 as Jon's "estranged reality show costar". How very accurate.
http://tinyurl.com/mu7k7y

MBach said...

My only comment to Kate is this.

I hope someday very soon that you recognize how controling others will not bring you happiness. Your relationships are based on how much money you can earn, how much money you can pay, how much you can intimidate people, and how long it all can continue. People do things for you because of money, or because they are afraid of you. That is pretty sad!

There is always hope, but until you learn to walk in love instead of anger, greed, selfishness, and deceitfulness you will eventually live in regret.

*db* said...

Jon and Khate whom you really need to put first in your lives is the "God" you claim to know and serve because we are not seeing it.
J Jesus first
O Others second (your kids)
Y Yourself LAST!

This is a simple truth to remember!
Read scripture 1 John:15-17 perhaps this will jog your memory.
Remember, it's not what the world thinks, God knows your hearts....


Also if you REALLY want to show the world how much your kids mean to you and how you ALWAYS put them first. GET THEM OFF OF TELEVISION!!! and seek family counseling for all of you, even if you have no plans on working on your marraige. This would be putting your kids firts and giving them what they DESERVE. you have a really distorted idea on what your kids deserve.

Janine said...

Jon, Please introduce your kids to ALL of their family and Re-introduce them to the loving people K8 barred from their lives. They need all the LOVE and connection available. Keep K8 away from your dogs. It is SO sad

Twice as Nice said...

Dear Jon and Kate~
STOP, it's not too late. The divorce papers aren't signed yet. Take a good look at yourselves and those sweet kids and do the right thing.
Kate~watch each episode from the beginning and admit your shortcomings. Your husband tried so hard to show you how unhappy he was and you were too focused on fame to notice. You can still say you're sorry and become the wife you should have been. Respect and appreciation is all it takes.
Jon~ your behavior is that of a teenager. Yes, Kate was controlling but you allowed it. Take back your manhood, admit your shortcomings and try one more time for your children. It won't be easy but maybe she will now be willing to go to counseling and the two of you should start over.
You both say you do everything for the kids. Prove it, they want you together.

keeblerc said...

Do you know what your kids are hearing/being told while at school by their peers and if they're being teased or hurt by comments about your behavior?

(BTW, Lots of great comments and questions being posed here! Very thought-provoking!!)

Beach Lover said...

To Kate: Was this a con you had in your head before you even met Jon, and with your previous fiancee, that you would emulate the McC family and have lots of kids artifically and use them like this? Truth now.

To Jon: If you come completely clean about everything, completely, then the witch will have nothing that can harm you.

marypoppins said...

What are your goals?
To bash each other publicly ?
Until when and to what end?
How mature!

Monique said...

Kate: How are you going to defend yourself to your kids in 10-15 years, when they demand explanations for all the promises you've publicly made and just as publicly broken?

Jon: Grow up and start acting like a dad again, because you are the only parent they have who *might* care enough to provide them with love, stability, and a healthy environment.

Debi said...

Kate: How do you think those kids will feel seeing the episode where the kids are being potty trained and you took their pictures next to the potty with a turd in it (which TG was blurred out)? Do you think that will be a proud moment for them, or one you should have kept private?

Why don't you go to the bathroom (don't flush)...squat next to the toilet and have any one of the tups take YOUR picture for the world to see?

mom-of-one said...

To Kate:

Who the H are you talking to and texting on your cell phone all day? You have no friends!

Why do you go to FedEx Kinkos so much? Can't afford a fax machine? Hahaha.

What is wrong with the backyard at your house that you feel the need to make the kids play in the driveway where the papps can see you?

You better tell your PR people to coach you on the fake tears a little better, because it just makes me laugh really hard every time you try to "cry it up" for the cameras (as your soon-to-be-ex husband once said).

Scruffy's Mom said...

I want to say something mean but I can't. So, all I will say is: Please go away.

can't fool them said...

Do you monitor your kids all the time that they are on the computer? If not, they know everything and have been talking amongst themselves.

good luck said...

Kate
When Hugh Hefner writes you a letter to showcase you on PlayBoy, it means he can see right through you and he knows you are no different from his girls/employees who will trade their mothers for money and fame. He doesn't see you as a real mother. The old Hef has seen more skanks in his lifetime than anybody else.

readerlady said...

To the poster upthread who said Kate will drop surnames and just be "Kate", I think Hepburn already beat her to that.

I would say to Jon - take back your faith. Go back to church. If you don't feel comfortable going back to the church you and Kate attended, go back to the Catholic faith you were raised in, or find another church you feel comfortable with. Heck, become a Buddhist, if that is what makes you comfortable. Just find a faith and hang on to it. Then, bring your children back. You need to protect them. It's obvious you already love them and know them well.

To Kate - step back, take a good long look at yourself and FINALLY admit the mistakes you've made and the grief you've caused so many others. It's way too late to fix your marriage, but it's not too late to fix your life.

Midnight Serenade said...

Kate and Jon:
You two put your lives on public display, and now cry "foul!" when the paps follow you around. What did you expect? You have nobody to blame but yourselves.
Why do you suppose the p-people don't chase down the Duggars or the Hayes family? Think about it...

do it, jon said...

Hey Jon, have a friend of a friend contact Vanity Fair magazine with a list of people from your and Kate's lives who have not signed a nondisclosure contract. Leave the rest to them. VF does unbiased, researched, respected journalism and loves a good story about a fake (think bernie madoff). This will shut Kate up once and for all. She says she likes integrity, well, let her have it.

Lori said...

Kate-

Losing everything of real meaning and value (i.e. family, marriage etc) to have fame and fortune, was it worth it? I guess time will tell.

Lil'Chickpea said...

Jon and Kate, I only wanna know one thing:

How do you sleep at night?

youcan'ttakeitwithyou said...

stay green said...

Hey Kate, now that the show is about to die, why don't you make nice with Jon and try for just one more baby so you can see what it's like to have just one?

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!you made my eyes bug out! i needed a laugh today!

TheTelephone said...

Kate,

Your kids called. They want their lives back. Oh, and their money.

just wondering said...

Kate.. Don't you just love Kathy Griffen? I think she caught some of your best moments.

Tyra said...

Come on now Kate, tell the truth...do you really mop your floors 3X'S a day?

CJP-GA said...

Kate:

Have you pulled the stick out yet?

Standup4thechildren said...

Think of the children...PLEASE stop the show...this has gone way too far...8 dear lives hang in the balance...

jasmine said...

Kate, take the Playboy offer. You will never get this opportunity again.

Jon, you will not get any offers to pose nude, but you have the opportunity to market your own bobblehead dolls.

enoughalready said...

To KHate - You know you've hit rock bottom when Playboy comes a knocking......You know you've hit rock bottom when you have to pay for "friends" services.....You know you've hit rock bottom when porno sites are doing films based on you......You know you've hit rock bottom when Joel McHale and Kathy griffin make great fun of you...You're laughing stock and your PR team did a great job in achieving that for you!

Kim said...

I would put Kate in front of a television...run the show...have her justify EVERY smart mouth comment out of her mouth. ANd after evey smaty mouth answer, I would play my fagvorite clip...when Jon tells her to get the stick out of her arse. Of course I would have to figure out a way to do this without me having to watch the show. Once was bad enough. Twice....poke my eyes out with hot coals.

susan said...

Kate, hitting your kids with a wooden spoon to get them to perform while filming? Absolutely appalling. Circus animals aren't treated that badly.

Lisa said...

Jon & Kate,

How proud the Lord must be of you right now. Hanging scripture verses throughout the house all while pimping out your children on national television ... collecting money from authentic Christ-honoring people in His house just moments after berating and demeaning your husband ...

You both are quite a piece of work. But enjoy it now. Because my guess is, it's gonna be an ugly day when you reach the entrance to those pearly gates. You see, He doesn't care who you THINK you are. He already knows who you really are. And doing everything in His name as you have done, and then spitting in His face as you have done, won't get you where you THINK you're going.

You should be ashamed of yourself. You've given trailor park trash a whole new meaning.

toosad4words said...

Please for the sake of your beautiful children, just stay out of the public eye and take care of your family with as much grace & dignity as you possibly can.

jbean32 said...

Jon, you say that this is "all for the kids", so tell me, are all of the cars, shopping sprees, Manhattan apartments and expensive jewelry for your girlfriend for them?

Aunt Chris said...

Kate, why did you insist that Jon come into the bedroom when you were threatening the kids with a punishment of "severness" if they ever came back in, if it wasn't Jon's bedroom?

Ramie said...

Kate- Every time you say a statement like "I'm doing this for my kids........" I insert your name (Kate) and all of a sudden your statement makes sense. Are you going to permanently change your name to "for my kids?"

goawayfools said...

Dear Kate, where did you learn to write?????????? Did you go to the school of overpunctuation???????? I guess you think several exclamation points or question marks are more exciting!!!!!!! Like when you ask for love offerings and deposits for your church talks!!!!!!! Golly, you're such an idiot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday said...

Hateful abusive one-- when the only people around you are PAID to be around you, you've sunk to the Anna Nicole, MJ level. As far as you being 'lonely', you have EIGHT children. Imagine how lonely they are having you as a mother.

no cupcakes for boys, just selfish moms said...

Kate- Why did you get so much cake on your birthday? Why did you deny your sons a cupcake on theirs after travelling for 4+ hours to film them making one? Why are you so insane and selfish, and when will you get yourself some help?

FoodNetworkFan said...

Go take yourself some showers. You need them. You're both dirty and have the markings of the handprints of greed all over yourselves. You're covered in filth, and it's worse than the poo that you both have been cleaning up after with your littler of children. Your own dogs wouldn't want to come near you even if you was covered in Meaty Bones.

Grammar Queen said...

Hey Khate:

Your 6th grade Grammar teacher called - yup, it's taken her THIS long to get through your essay on the use of adjectives.
Here are a few you left out:

Selfishness- is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
(psst- Your kids don't want to live this way....YOU do!!)

Thoughtful- "Having or showing heed for the well-being or happiness of others and a propensity for anticipating their needs or wishes".

Just sayin...

really bad television, puking said...

Why did you you think that showing pictures of your kids first potty training bowel movements was interesting? That was just sick, seriously,what an ego you must have.

Nana Sew Dear said...

Kate: Get over yourself. Go to a medical dictionary, look uo "narcissism" and contact a doctor for treatment. In the mean time, allow someone else to raise your kids.

Ellen said...

Kate, you should not have let TLC film your kids' potty training moments. Making your kids stand next to their turds and take a picture? Come on! Kate, they are kids NOT MONKEYS. You just don't parade them like circus animals to make good TV. That's sick. You are a sick woman.

mrsfujimori said...

Kate,

I know you love to parade around as miss "best-selling author" because of the notariety of your *cough, cough BETH's* book, but you're not.

Now, one day, when Mady grows up and writes a tell-all book about how horrible you are and how the show messed up her life, SHE'LL be a best-selling author.

There's a book you'll actually have a part in.

techmischief said...

Kate,

Grow up. Remove the corn cob and then keep your legs closed. Wake up to the REAL reality. You have eight children who need their mother. Not a celebrity wanna be. Turn off the cameras and learn how to be a real , not reality show, mom. It's you kids birthright.

John,

Keep it in your pants and grow the **** up! You can have you mid life crisis later when the kids are grown. They need their level headed dad back. Great move with the counseling. It would be better to put down the bottle and the smokes and move closer to home. You kids need to be the main focus right now. Turn off the cameras and help the kids work through this!

Muffynbear said...

All I have to say about Jon and Kate:


Remember Betty Broderick?


You know... messy divorce, child custody, new found wealth, jealousy, manipulation etc. A lot of similar issues going on here with the Gosselins.

Let's hope it doesn't escalate into extreme violence.

sueshe said...

Could you just stop and put your children first?

Shameless witch said...

Kate, you say that there's no going back. That doesn't mean you have to continue your sad, fake, embarrassing, exploitive show. The kids' displeasure is obvious and you pay more attention to the camera than you do them. Your ignorance and stupidity are more obvious now that Jon isn't on camera with you.

Lisbeth said...

Stop the show.
Build a new life for yourselves and your children outside of the public eye.

gross me out said...

Kate, back in the day when I actually enjoyed your show, I'd often have to change the channel because the poop, puke, pee pots in the van and your lengthy discussions about them made me sick. Worse than Fear Factor. I often eat dinner in front of the tv and your show was definitely off limits. By the way, how many times have you poo'ed today? Disgusting.

nofanofthem said...

You guys both just look stupid! Enough already! The show is BORING and it's time to think about the welfare of your children instead of just lining your pockets.

Minka's tail said...

Kate:
Did you really disown your father over matching furniture?

Did you really ask Jon to sign a contract faking a marriage?

Did you really threaten to leave him if he didn't quit his job and babysit?

Did you really deny your sister-in-law money from a third party?

Jon: Do you know the difference between lust and love?

T.T said...

Can T.L.C. please film one of your many melt downs for millions to see?

After all we did see each and every one of your 8 childrens having a melt down.

Fair game.

cover up please said...

Why the baby doll dresses? Can't find anything else that will show off the boobs and hide the fact that you have no waist and the legs of an offensive lineman? Loved the dress up the asscheeks

Vanessa said...

Why do you now have the energy to get up at 5:00 am to run on your treadmill for an hour, do your hair and makeup, dress yourself to the (ahem) nines but couldn't get out of bed before 8:00am when your BABIES needed you? How did you get your babies to nap for almost 4 hours a day and still complain you were sooo tired?
Why did you never bathe your children?

claire said...

To Jon and Kate:

Go away.

Eddie said...

Jon: I don't think you are a bad guy but you have to learn from your mistakes. Why do you trust Hailey? Any woman who wants to be in front of the camera has a motif. You need to use your head. Don't date women with an agenda. Watch out.

Eddie said...

Kate: Do you regret getting that free tummy tuck now? You see, nothing is free in life. You will pay later. You used them for free tummy tuck and had the nerve to ask for more (free boob jobs). Hailey's family doesn't respect you. So Hailey doesn't see anything wrong dating Jon. She has to regards for a mean greedy evil woman's feeling.

Denise said...

Why do you continue to live your lives in the public? What will you do when the P-people think you are yesterday news? What will you do when your children say, "You ruined our childhood...all of my friends have a normal family?".

Anonymous said...

honesty-always

Jon, I have been a viewer for a long time. I was your age once
with one child and made many mistakes. Thankfully, my adult
son, now older than you, turned out very well. But not without
much truthfulness between us. Please, time goes by fast.
In 20 years, don't be sitting back immersed with pain and guilt
when you have so many people behind you trying to give you sound
advice. You have the heart and awareness to take this situation
and make it 'right' for your children! They will be grateful and
you will have peace. What is more important than that?
...Oh please don't even do the 'Divorced Dad's'route..Mistake...
Lohan and Federline are already perceived badly as in 'ick'
You still have a chance to come through it all!
Most of us here believe in your goodness and ability to do
what's right! Go for it! Believe in yourself!

organizedblogroll said...

KATE: if paparazzi is such a thorn in your side, why the 5 clothing changes a day?????

Jennifer said...

When I look back at my parents' mistakes, I can honestly say that they tried their best. Can you say the same? Are you both HONESTLY trying your best, or are you going to look back with regret?

itsacon said...

Dear Kate,
You are not now, nor were you ever, anyone's idol. You are a freak of human behavior. The world LAUGHS at you. We are facinated by the abnormals of human behavior and many are mesmorized by your hair, your shreak, your absolute love for yourself, your phychopathology. The only interest has been as with a car wreck: just how freakish can you get. But (yawn) TLC shows us other things to gawk at now so you have become yesterday's news. yeah, sad that you made money from demonstrating pychotic behavior to babies and toddlers, but maybe next summer Target will be hiring checkout girls and you can feed your preteens with that wage. We dont owe you anything. AND GET THIS KATE - we dont owe your kids anything either!! Start wrapping your feeble brain around THAT!

Cronkite you're not said...

Why does Kate interview herself? Because she can't handle a real interview where she would have to answer real questions. Is it annoying when she does this? You betcha it is. Does she get it? Never will, never did.

Junie said...

Jon: don't let anyone ever tell you that there is anything wrong with telling the TRUTH. I despise the person who abused me too, I am not ashamed to say! I am proud of you for speaking up!

Kate: you are not fooling anyone when you SAY that you do "everything for your kids"...actions speak louder than words!! Start walking the walk instead of just talking the talk. Get Counseling before it is too late and your children despise you too!

K8 ain't GR8 said...

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/09/kate-gosselin-pours-her-heart-out

Wow Kate, you really think you're a star.

Too bad your audience is young, lonely and dysfunctional.

junebug said...

I just read that Kathy Griffin is supposed to cohost The View with Kate. Kathy really slammed Kate in the skit. I bet Miss Muppet Head (no offense to the muppets) is seething.

best selling beyotch said...

Kate, why do you behave as if you wrote Multiple Blessings when Jon and Beth are also listed as authors? Do you three split the proceeds equally or have you taken all of that too? By the way, you are incapable of writing a coherent request for church donations let alone a book!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Consider going back to school; from what we hear, your grades weren't so hot the first go around. It shows.

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